Chet,
Most of my asian friends here are very nice and respectable
people. There are some who are a bit americanized, and materialistic.
My wife is Filipina. Went there and met her. AFTER I had already met
the materialistic, money hungry, want to go to the US type. No, not
many are like that there actually. But, I have found that very few
that are online are really sincere when it comes to their heart and
"YOU". They are sincere in their needs and wants for themselves and
their family. I am not saying anything bad about Asians in any way. Of
those I know(many, many after my year in Asia), they are the kindest,
and most faithful of anyone I know personally. What I am saying is, do
you want someone who is in love with you? Or a companion? If you find
an Asian woman here in the US, odds are she will be a bit
Americanized. Either mistreated by a former, or current
relationship(the latter meaning you won't have a relationship with her
until it's over), or affected by the way she has been treated(usually
disrespected and taken advantage of). Really and truly you should go
to Asia! Even if you find a woman here, go to her homeland(unless
there is a reason you cannot). Learn about her life, family, and
country at least some. It will help you greatly. It has me. I love my
wife deeply, a wonderful Mother, and Wife. A good hearted person most
definitely. Once you know the relationship you want(Love or
Companion), you can decide on what to do. Just remember that they
"Are" different. But in a great way! I had a hard time adapting when I
returned to the US. I got so used to the nice, I forgot about the
rudeness of here. Good luck my friend. If I can help, glad to. If I
confused you more, sorry. Talk to me. Maybe I can help make things
clearer. But when you find the one for you, you will not regret one
day of your life after that. Only the time you wasted before her.
Bye
--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "C Ma Chen"
<ongbocau@...> wrote:
>
>
> While I appreciate the fact there are far more Asian women in Asia that
> want to come to America, for all the obvious reasons, I would like to
> find a way to find women of Asian heritage here in the USA. How can we
> find these ladies, & they find us non-Asian men, in a reasonable way?
>
> I've found the web dating services appear worthless as they are just
> about the buck, not about helping two souls meet. Anyone know any
> volunteer sites? This one, while a nice attempt, appears dominated by
> men in America looking for love & women in Asia looking for an
> opportunity to get here. Maybe I'm too cynical but thats what I see.
> Any constructive thoughts? Please no hate mail... Chet
>
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