[asianamericanromance] Re: Bisexual-OK?

--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, bhumika chawla <bhumika.chawla01@...> wrote:
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> Would men here like it if their girlfriend/wife was bisexual? Would they allow the woman to have a girlfriend if the woman was faithful to them and not go with other men?
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> Just trying to start a discussion
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Me personally, I would like my wife or girlfriend to be MY wife/girlfriend. I have a strong belief in a monogamous relationship and want to keep it that way. If it were a strictly sexual relationship, that would be totally different. I notice that many people can't separate sex from love and a third wheel would lead to more conflict than cohesiveness.

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[asianamericanromance] QUESTION: Can being married can make you more relaxed?

Group Members-from your experience and belief do you agree with this article?

KHWAN

Why being married can make you more relaxed

It will come as news to stressed spouses, but according to research being married makes you more relaxed.

The finding may go some way towards explaining previous studies which showed married couples have less heart disease and other health problems.

In the latest study scientists found students given tests they believed would affect their career prospects had much less of the stress hormone cortisol if they had a partner.

True wedded bliss: Being married makes you more relaxed, according to researchers

Professor Dario Maestripieri of Chicago University, whose finding are published in the journal Stress, said: 'What we found is that marriage has a dampening effect on cortisol responses to psychological stress - and that is very new.

'These results suggest single and unpaired individuals are more responsive to psychological stress than married individuals, a finding consistent with a growing body of evidence showing-that marriage and social support can buffer against stress.

'We found unpaired individuals of both sexes had higher cortisol levels than married individuals.

'Although marriage can be pretty stressful, it should make it easier for people to handle other stressors in their lives.'

Five hundred students, almost half of whom were married or in relationships, played a series of computer games that tested economic behaviours. Saliva samples measured hormone level changes.

The survey also found singletons displayed higher testosterone levels than their married or committed colleagues - a finding that mirrors previous human research as well as animal observations.

Professor Maestripieri, who conducts most of his research on monkeys in Puerto Rico, said species of primates and birds show similar changes where males assist females with rearing.

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Re: [asianamericanromance] Why do guys like bad girls?

Most intellect is on a rational level taught or spoon feed to them through education. marriage including sexual intercourse is sacred.
Now it is based on lust and both partners worship eachother and the Tv has all the answers instead of Christ. We wonder why children are out of control brought into slave driven world.

On Wed Aug 18th, 2010 12:37 AM EDT simanton@aol.com wrote:

>Well, let me look at a classic "bad girl" of the 20th century. Mae West.
>She thought for herself, she believed that she had the right to make her
>own decisions regarding sex and her partners. A "bad girl" OR a "good girl"
>who is truly expressing herself is equally strong. The one I would see as
>weak and less desirable is the one who follows what she has been told
>without making her own decisions.
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>John S.
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>In a message dated 8/17/2010 12:25:39 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time,
>khwan@khwan.com writes:
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>Here is question for everyone. I saw the movie SCOTT PILGREM and thoughts
>about this (the ending spoiled-so if you not want ending spoiled-STOP
>reading). At the end Scott chooses the "bad" girl (vs. the nice girl he was
>dating at the beginning). I not want to argue how bad she is-she have many evil
>bad boyfriends. She is cold. Distant. Moody. Etc. Why do guys ALWAYS
>complain that girls pick the "bad boyfriends" when many MANY times they do the
>same thing (pick the "bad girlfriends")?
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>I curious what opinions Group Members here have?
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