| I have a Thai wife . I answered your post because you took photos at the North hollywood temple. I am a white man with thai family. just looking to meet new people. we've been together 8 years. am not looking , nothing serious. --- On Wed, 3/10/10, Khwan <khwan@khwan.com> wrote:
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Hello Just For Birds, Your words are wonderfully stated and allows all groups, no matter what race they are show, that love can be found. You and your spouse have survived many years together as friends, family members, spouses, parents and finally a loving team. You should and must be commended for being an instrument of love and dedication to the rest of the world. Although your love and steady dedication to one another is exemplary. I really do wish, you were a constant normality in life. We are all in one way or another constantly striving for even a shadows length of happiness and longevity in love that the two of you have enjoyed for more than a decade. Please keep the knowledge and success of your love known to us all. It is always good to hear about the successes of others. Thank you for sharing your wealth with us all. Frederick Whiteside Thursday, March 11, 2010 --- On Thu, 3/11/10, Just For Birds <justforbirds@telus.net> wrote:
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I am married to my Thai wife for 15 years.
We have a great life.
Two wonderful, smart, good looking kids who are the tops of their class.
For me; when I started looking; I was 39 years old, never married.
Lots of dating, of course.
But; never that special one.
I ended up living in the San Francisco/Bay area.
I found, at the age of 39; it was difficult to meet a woman who had not been married or didn’t have a lot of “baggage”.
I did date women with kids; always the same comment: “Well; you could never be their dad. They have a dad”
Or; I had to bear the anger they held from prior relationships.
Geeze: I just gave up.
So; I decided I just really wanted to get married and signed up for several of the “mail order bride” type magazines.
This being before the internet stuff.
I wrote to well over 100 ladies, but; married almost the 1st one that wrote back.
We wrote for about 6 months, I went to meet her and we wrote for 3 more years.
For me; I like the way Asian women move.
They have this casual way about them when they move their hands or just turn around.
The shape of the eyes, the shiny black hair.
It is a gestalt of movement.
Many men think they are going to “save” an Asian lady from their culture of servitude
to men and likely think they will be on the receiving end of a fair amount of servitude gratitude and adoration.
Listen to the words in the song “My China Doll” by David Bowie.
I could escape this feeling
With my China Girl
I feel a wreck without my
Little China Girl
I hear her heart beating
Loud as thunder
Saw their stars crashing
I'm a mess without my
Little China Girl
Wake up mornings where's my
Little China Girl
I hear her heart's beating
Loud as thunder
Saw their stars crashing down
I feel a-tragic like I'm Marlon Brando
When I look at my china girl
I could pretend that nothing really meant too much
When I look at my china girl
I stumble into town just like a sacred cow
Visions of swastikas in my head
Plans for everyone
It's in the whites of my eyes
My little china girl
You shouldn't mess with me
I'll ruin everything you are
I'll give you television
I'll give you eyes of blue
I'll give you a man who want to rule the world
I think many of us go into this thinking we will be saviors only to become enslaved by our own innate needs.
For me; I discovered that the petite girl of my dreams had as good or better an education than I did.
Her ability to manage money (and me) has made us financially stable.
She is strong emotionally and morally.
Many times I am humbled and must strive to keep up.
And; the sense of family. Her family loves me and I am welcome at any time.
There is no bickering in her family that is often the case in a NA family.
In North America our families are all disparate entities; split up and going our own ways.
We’ve had a good 15 years; no fights, some sadness (deaths in the families), but: a lot of great times, memories and shared endeavors.
The best is that rather than (like many NA women) worrying about the break up or dissolution of the marriage/relationship (the glass is ½ empty); I think Asian women think the other way; how the marriage/relationship will work (the glass is ½ full). And so: for me: I ended up with a full partner who is headed in the same direction I am with significantly similar goals and morals.
My advice would be to set aside any pre-conceived notions you all might have and concentrate on being the best you can be for the person you have decided to look for.
You will likely get more than you bargained for; like catching ahold of a tigers tail.
Be prepared to meet the challenge.
If you are financially or morally bankrupt; it won’t work.
It’s not working for you now; so: why share your misery?
I had to straighten out my life somewhat before I took on the writing and before I could contemplate being a husband.
But; in the end: what I have is like I won a lottery.
So: that’s my thoughts.
Jerry in Canada.
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Sent: Wednesday, March 10, 2010 2:36 PM
To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [asianamericanromance] Re: Couples Questions or Problems or Discussions?
JUST for BIRDS Ltd.
EXTINCT is FOREVER
Hello Abaista, Thank you for your question concerning, "Why do men fantasize about Asian Girls?" It is a question that has gone unanswered for many decades and possibly a few centuries as well. The majority and major catalyst of the problem is more likely because Asians have kept themselves very secluded. They like the Jewish people have married primarily within their own ethnic groups and race. Their fears and stereotypes of the past have kept them in fear of branching out into other races. Lately, I would say since the 1950's, a change in marriage partners have changed a lot for the Asian race. They have allowed the mixing of their race with outside groups. This has predominantly been with Caucasians or people that look more white than of a darker hue of the rainbow. There is nothing wrong with this thinking or belief in who is better to put into your family mixture. Once again the seclusion factor makes it a need to want to know more about a certain people than you would of others. Even to this day, you will not find many Asians who would dare to step out of the good graces of the family to be with someone they truly love with all their hearts and soul. This goes especially for male or female Asian that have fallen in love with someone from the African American group. That behavior could be quite caustic, not just for the person, but for their family members as well. Especially if they are well standing in the Asian community. For the most part, the Asian female has always been more than a fantasy for me. She is one of the most beautiful of GOD's good works on this planet. Some Asian women have faces that appear to have been painted by the worlds best artist. The way their eyes are situated on their face is like no other race on the entire planet. Whether she has a vile temper or is as soft as the morning dew, when she responds to you. The Asian woman is far more in stature, than just a fantasy. The Asian woman is very characteristic of her own racial group and in many ways that of African groups. Both groups share a vibrant and long standing culture like no others on this planet. Both groups have been all over this planet and our peoples have inter-mixed many times over to produce so many other races, cultures and ethnicity's. It is no wonder, why I find the Asian woman one the most awe inspiring beauties on this planet. Thank you Abaista Laden for posing this question and thank you for reading my response. Frederick Whiteside Thursday, March 11, 2010 --- On Wed, 3/10/10, Abaista Laden <afghanistan_girl@yahoo.com> wrote:
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| What is so special about a asian woman? I think it the fact that american men like the control they have over asian woman that they don't have over american woman.I want an asian woman because of their beauty, language, and those who still believe in traditional value. I believe woman are equal and desire the same honor that they give. I would be so lucky to find such a woman. How about you Khwan, want to date? :=) |
Thank you for the kind words about the Group. I agree that it had good purpose in the past. And I hope that it comes back again.
The key is that there are good people like yourself who continue to post and discuss. Good posts lead to more good posts and more good members.
I not think that posts from people who say I WANT ASIAN WOMEN! Helps anyone. I think many of these men would be happy with a hooker if they could afford to pay for one.
As I posted when I first started this Group that it was for SERIOUS discussions about relationships. Not a swinger website.
KHWAN
--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "Frederick W" <fwhiteside@...> wrote:
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> Wow and how wonderful to see so much renewed activity in this group. Does anyone know what brought on this sudden change and energy? Whatever happened to bring about this change. I really hope it continues.
>
> It was a very positive group with an important purpose in the past. It would be nice to see it return to its former greatness.
>
> Frederick Whiteside
> Wednesday, March 10, 2010.
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> I think that most Asian women now are too greedy. They are more interested in what you can give them and less interested in what they can do for you. Over the last 5 years I have been used by many and I am tired of it. I think that any guy who actively seeks an Asian girlfriend is a sucker. They might as well hand over their ATM card because that is what they will do in the end.
>
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> --- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "Khwan" <khwan@> wrote:
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> > I know lots of Group Members want to post WANT ADS for ladys.
> >
> > But when I first start this Group it was meant for people who have serious questions and want to discuss relationships with Asian men and women.
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> > Is there any questions or topics of discussions from people who are in relationships (or want to be in relationships) from any Group Members here?
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> > PLEASE! I sure I not the only Group Member who is very bored with the want ad postings here.
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It was a very positive group with an important purpose in the past. It would be nice to see it return to its former greatness.
Frederick Whiteside
Wednesday, March 10, 2010.
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I am married to my Thai wife for 15 years.
We have a great life.
Two wonderful, smart, good looking kids who are the tops of their class.
For me; when I started looking; I was 39 years old, never married.
Lots of dating, of course.
But; never that special one.
I ended up living in the San Francisco/Bay area.
I found, at the age of 39; it was difficult to meet a woman who had not been married or didn’t have a lot of “baggage”.
I did date women with kids; always the same comment: “Well; you could never be their dad. They have a dad”
Or; I had to bear the anger they held from prior relationships.
Geeze: I just gave up.
So; I decided I just really wanted to get married and signed up for several of the “mail order bride” type magazines.
This being before the internet stuff.
I wrote to well over 100 ladies, but; married almost the 1st one that wrote back.
We wrote for about 6 months, I went to meet her and we wrote for 3 more years.
For me; I like the way Asian women move.
They have this casual way about them when they move their hands or just turn around.
The shape of the eyes, the shiny black hair.
It is a gestalt of movement.
Many men think they are going to “save” an Asian lady from their culture of servitude
to men and likely think they will be on the receiving end of a fair amount of servitude gratitude and adoration.
Listen to the words in the song “My China Doll” by David Bowie.
I could escape this feeling
With my China Girl
I feel a wreck without my
Little China Girl
I hear her heart beating
Loud as thunder
Saw their stars crashing
I'm a mess without my
Little China Girl
Wake up mornings where's my
Little China Girl
I hear her heart's beating
Loud as thunder
Saw their stars crashing down
I feel a-tragic like I'm Marlon Brando
When I look at my china girl
I could pretend that nothing really meant too much
When I look at my china girl
I stumble into town just like a sacred cow
Visions of swastikas in my head
Plans for everyone
It's in the whites of my eyes
My little china girl
You shouldn't mess with me
I'll ruin everything you are
I'll give you television
I'll give you eyes of blue
I'll give you a man who want to rule the world
I think many of us go into this thinking we will be saviors only to become enslaved by our own innate needs.
For me; I discovered that the petite girl of my dreams had as good or better an education than I did.
Her ability to manage money (and me) has made us financially stable.
She is strong emotionally and morally.
Many times I am humbled and must strive to keep up.
And; the sense of family. Her family loves me and I am welcome at any time.
There is no bickering in her family that is often the case in a NA family.
In North America our families are all disparate entities; split up and going our own ways.
We’ve had a good 15 years; no fights, some sadness (deaths in the families), but: a lot of great times, memories and shared endeavors.
The best is that rather than (like many NA women) worrying about the break up or dissolution of the marriage/relationship (the glass is ½ empty); I think Asian women think the other way; how the marriage/relationship will work (the glass is ½ full). And so: for me: I ended up with a full partner who is headed in the same direction I am with significantly similar goals and morals.
My advice would be to set aside any pre-conceived notions you all might have and concentrate on being the best you can be for the person you have decided to look for.
You will likely get more than you bargained for; like catching ahold of a tigers tail.
Be prepared to meet the challenge.
If you are financially or morally bankrupt; it won’t work.
It’s not working for you now; so: why share your misery?
I had to straighten out my life somewhat before I took on the writing and before I could contemplate being a husband.
But; in the end: what I have is like I won a lottery.
So: that’s my thoughts.
Jerry in Canada.
From: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com [mailto:asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Khwan
Sent: Wednesday, March 10, 2010 2:36 PM
To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [asianamericanromance] Re: Couples Questions or Problems or Discussions?
Feel free to help.
Paypal any amount to: khwan@khwan.
Thank you.
KHWAN
--- In asianamericanromanc
>
> you need help
>
>
>
>
> ____________
> From: Khwan <khwan@...>
> To: asianamericanromanc
> Sent: Wed, March 10, 2010 11:29:05 AM
> Subject: [asianamericanroman
>
> Â
> Can someone please translate this into English?
>
> Thank you.
>
> --- In asianamericanromanc e@yahoogroups. com, Jerry Wilkins <yahwoo692@ ..> wrote:
> >
> > i am not dead yet what about you america is freedom to wish and have a dream mybe you are to dump or young to understand, khwan .you do you ,i will do me, peace out
> >
>
you laffed and you know it.... --- On Wed, 3/10/10, Khwan <khwan@khwan.com> wrote:
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| What do the fantasies involve? Love Amber |
KHWAN (glad she live on the other side of the country)
--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, Mike Kosak <mwk_14059@...> wrote:
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> And the slanted pussy.
> >
>
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Following Cabinet approval last week, the sites at Anlong Veng will be protected
from destruction by local people and illegal encroachment, the area's district
chief Yim Phana said.
Anlong Veng, about 185 miles (300 kilometers) north of Phnom Penh, fell to
government forces in 1998 after nearly 20 years of fighting.
The Khmer Rouge regime, under which an estimated 1.7 million people died from
execution, disease and malnutrition, was toppled in 1979 but its guerrillas
fought on in the jungles, with Anlong Veng becoming their last stronghold.
Yim Phana said the 14 sites include homes belonging to Khmer Rouge leaders, an
ammunition warehouse and the grave of Pol Pot, who died in 1998.
Once a remote town, Anlong Veng is now connected by good roads to nearby
Thailand and Cambodia's greatest tourist attractions, the temples of Angkor.
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Paypal any amount to: khwan@khwan.com
Thank you.
KHWAN
--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, Jerry Wilkins <yahwoo692@...> wrote:
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> you need help
>
>
>
>
> ________________________________
> From: Khwan <khwan@...>
> To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> Sent: Wed, March 10, 2010 11:29:05 AM
> Subject: [asianamericanromance] Re: hi
>
> Â
> Can someone please translate this into English?
>
> Thank you.
>
> --- In asianamericanromanc e@yahoogroups. com, Jerry Wilkins <yahwoo692@ ..> wrote:
> >
> > i am not dead yet what about you america is freedom to wish and have a dream mybe you are to dump or young to understand, khwan .you do you ,i will do me, peace out
> >
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What do the fantasies involve? Love Amber |
Can someone please translate this into English?
Thank you.
--- In asianamericanromanc e@yahoogroups. com, Jerry Wilkins <yahwoo692@. ..> wrote:
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> i am not dead yet what about you america is freedom to wish and have a dream mybe you are to dump or young to understand, khwan .you do you ,i will do me, peace out
>
Khwan, You have to subsitute 'dream woman' for 'fantasy' to understand why american men say that It is not a 'fantasy' like a sexual pleasure only, it is a dream of having a beautiful beautiful asian wife AND - you have to admit Asian girls are some of the most beautiful in the world. There is also the cultural aspect- there is something wonderfule about actually HAVING a culture... And, american men have experience with amercian girls. We see how a guy gets married to a petite, long-haire beauty at age 20- and at age 30 she gets her hair chpped of, and her girls friends all tell "oh its so cute!!" while her husband is furious, but she does not care what her husband thinks. And then she gains 60 pounds. So he wonders when he married a short-fat man. And bitchy... it is like being married to a a water buffalo So- it is the dream of a beautiful wife, sweet nature, who he can respect because she deserves respect, delicious asian food. And the slanted pussy. --- On Wed, 3/10/10, Mike Kosak <mwk_14059@yahoo.com> wrote:
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| KHWAN! YOU ARE MY FANTASY!!! --- On Wed, 3/10/10, Khwan <khwan@khwan.com> wrote:
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I love bugs too!! --- On Tue, 3/9/10, Khwan <khwan@khwan.com> wrote:
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| Nothing more than with any other woman. except for keeping my hands to myself. --- On Wed, 3/10/10, Abaista Laden <afghanistan_girl@yahoo.com> wrote:
|
Thank you.
--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, Jerry Wilkins <yahwoo692@...> wrote:
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> i am not dead yet what about you america is freedom to wish and have a dream mybe you are to dump or young to understand, khwan .you do you ,i will do me, peace out
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