I think it's more accurate to say that American Women have lost sight
of what men find appealing in women. There are still a few who get it,
and can manage to be intellectually effective and also feminine. These
few, however, have their pick of any man they care to have so are not
often found shopping at Wal-Mart at midnight...if you get my drift.
Even the hard-core feminists from the '60's have come to recognize the
sour fruit of their efforts.
Don't forget to lay appropriate blame at the feet of American men, who
have made no effort to indicate a preference for femininity.
Eric
--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, copper tree
<coppertree123@...> wrote:
>
> Without flaming anyone let me say this about American women.
>
> Over the past 65 years I have watched them change from beautiful
ladies to something else that I cant explain.
>
> The modern American woman wants to act like a man, talk like a man,
drink like a man, cuss like a man, smell like a man, look like a man
( or a box with arms and legs). and I think she wants to be a man.
>
> I really cant think of any reason for anyone to want an American
woman unless he just dosent care what he gets.
>
> Lowell
>
> --- On Thu, 9/18/08, Blah B <stangah@...> wrote:
>
> From: Blah B <stangah@...>
> Subject: Re: [asianamericanromance] Re: how to start relationship
with western girl
> To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> Date: Thursday, September 18, 2008, 6:40 PM
>
> Chris
>
> I echo some of your sentiment
>
> Let me ask
>
> How much experience have you had with american women
> I ask to see what you write is your perception or actual experience
>
> Thanks
>
> S
> On Sep 16, 2008, at 3:42 PM, Chris wrote:
>
> > The question is not how to start a relationship with western
> > (American) girl but WHY?
> > American Girls grow up believing in fairy tales. That some day
they
> > will meet the "Perfect Prince" who will take them away to live a
> > perfect life. Free from any cares or worries. She want's a man who
> > is very confident of himself, who can stand up for himself to her
and
> > others but not be arrogant or cruel. A man with a sense of humor
who
> > can make her laugh and laugh at himself when he does something
> > foolish.
> > She wants a man who can provide for her but will also let her take
> > care of herself. You must be able to listen to her problems but
never
> > try to fix them. Only talk about them. Value her but don't worship
> > her. Make her feel loved but at the same time make her worry just
a
> > little that she is not pleasing to you. You must be willing to
> > suffer the frustration of never being able to fully make her happy
> > 100% of the time because no matter how good you may be, someone
she
> > knew before always did something better. You must also know that
> > American women spend their lives learning to disrespect men and
they
> > believe it is their job to to destroy our egos and frustrate and
> > confuse us. They will spend many weeks with you in email
> > conversations and cause you to believe they like you then tell you
> > they don't date or they have a boyfriend when you ask to have a
face
> > to face conversation.
> >
> > My friend, American women are the most challenging women you will
ever
> > come across. This is why more and more men are turning to native
born
> > Asian women like from Philippines or Thailand.
> >
> > Good luck.
> >
> > Chris
> >
> > P.S. NEVER...EVER...BEG!! Always be willing to walk away if she
> > disrespects you. That should apply to any woman anywhere.
> > --- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "fabian riza
> kurnia"
> > <fabianriza@> wrote:
> > >
> > > my name bian,I'm indonesian
> > > I have a problem with my CCU(Cross Cultural Understanding)
class,
> > > because I've an assignment for my report.
> > > on the other hand I interested with western girl n I don't know
> how
> > to
> > > start it
> > > I just want to know your opinion about the western girl and how
to
> > > make a good relationship with her(the girl)
> > > if you have an experience about couple asian american you can
tell
> > me
> > > how they are..
> > > please reply soon...
> > >
> >
> >
> >
>
>
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