RE: [asianamericanromance] Re: New Guy



i would like to meet an asian lady and date her
 

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From: lin.sharon123@yahoo.com
Date: Thu, 24 Jun 2010 02:48:23 +0000
Subject: [asianamericanromance] Re: New Guy

 
Beni how are you. I english not good too but glad how i don't know find asian female for you english i no understand and asian female english is communication problem there. You no marry asian female because your self no know english so you don't bother asking.

--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, Arnaldo Beni <hab77@...> wrote:
>
>
> sharon how are you .i have ask you how do you find a asian female i am looking locally but the ones i chat with are married and are here my them self .I am just asking.?
>
>
>
> To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> From: lin.sharon123@...
> Date: Wed, 23 Jun 2010 07:05:49 +0000
> Subject: [asianamericanromance] Re: New Guy
>
>
>
>
>
> Hi Jerry n Rose,
>
> I am sort of against china bride ... :p
> I used to work in our national immigrantion agency and assist interviewing china bride... None I would say they got cool personality deeply in their soul.. :p Sorry if I jumped to a conclusion too subjective.
>
> Their gap between poor and rich are pretty worse, female were not regarded any important, so they were unlucky to grow in a fair environment. They would seize any straw reach to them.... I personally don't think they would really want to go back to China. I might be very wrong but I personally think that's because she is in US now that she wants more. Send her back to China alone for a month, she will definately love you more than before.
>
> Again... I am sort of against china bride ... :p Probably it's because they are more competitive than me. lol
>
> I am also curious about your case.
>
> cheers,
> Sharon
> --- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "Rose" <pinkiee.roses@> wrote:
> >
> > Hi Jerry
> >
> > Welcome.
> >
> > Sorry to hear your problem. I guess that is what we called marriage life ;) May I know what is your wife age ?
> >
> > Yes it could be cultural difference shock. She is now trying to adapt to her present situation and she did miss her family a lot. All her life, she was living with her family and now she feels lonely without them.
> >
> > Sleeping on the couch for 2 days .... Wow. Wanna share the problem ? Maybe we can help you here ? :)
> >
> > Sent on date 6/23/2010 time 07:22
> >
> >
> > ~Watch your habits, for they become your character. Develop your character, for it becomes your destiny~
> > Sent with lots of best wishes and powered by Faith
> >
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: "Captain Jerry" <CaptainJerry@>
> > Sender: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> > Date: Tue, 22 Jun 2010 22:22:28
> > To: <asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com>
> > Reply-To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> > Subject: [asianamericanromance] New Guy
> >
> > Hi,
> > I'm new here. My name is Jerry [I've been called "Captain Jerry" for a
> > very long time!] I live in Southern California [The O.C. Baby!] and I
> > work for KIA Motors America as a Senior Software Engineer [which just
> > means that I'm a programmer that's been around the block a few...
> > hundred times!] -- About 2 years ago I was in the middle of a very
> > devastating divorce, when I met this wonderful girl [online] from China.
> > We clicked BIG TIME, and embarked on getting her to the U.S. to be my
> > wife. I went to visit her once, and it took us 9 more months to get her
> > here. We were married 10 days after she stepped off the plane. Our
> > relationship has been up and down since... Usually good, sometimes
> > great, sometimes just okay, but when we're having problems, they are
> > really bad. She almost immediately jumps to wanting to go back to
> > China, permanently. Yes, she misses her family, but she is constantly
> > online with them, and doesn't seem to be bothered that she can't
> > actually be with them in person. I think our problems are more in the
> > area of cultural differences, but I'll get to that in a new post!
> > [She's been sleeping on the couch for the past 2 nights :-(
> > Jerry
> >
>




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Re: [asianamericanromance] Re:Are you being too picky?



Well should I consider that I am not ;)

Coz I never look back with regrets, whatever happened consider its done ... That's why my eyes are not at the back of my head :p

Learned the mistake and take the first step to move forward and welcome a new beginning ;)

I live for today and the future, not the past :D

Cheers
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Date: Thu, 24 Jun 2010 00:17:43 EDT
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Subject: Re: [asianamericanromance] Re:Are you being too picky?

 

Are you too picky, Rose?  Only if you are looking back at chances passed up with regret.  Otherwise, you simply haven't found the right person!  And the right one IS worth waiting for.
 
John S.
 
In a message dated 6/23/2010 7:29:19 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time, pinkiee.roses@gmail.com writes:
 

Hi John :)

Ahhhh happy to hear someone agree with me ;)

So I guess this is all what we do :
1 . Make a list of dream couple
2. Act on it - start searching
3. Love strucks
4. Throw away the list and accept the reality if the person not really match to our list ;)

Its sound sooooo simple but it is not :)

Some fails on the step 3 because they don't believe the love they feel and they keep searching the person on the list.

Some fails on the step 4 because they refuse to throw away the list and still searching for the one in the list even though they already had someone :)

But lots of happy couple also ..... Basically all back to our self. We have something in our hands, its up to us whether we want to use it or throw it away :)

But now I am wondering to my self, am I too picky ???? :p

Cheers
~Rose~


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Subject: Re: [asianamericanromance] Re:Are you being too picky?

 

Yes, Rose, it applies to both!  And love has a way of tearing up lists.
 
John S.
 
In a message dated 6/22/2010 11:02:44 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time, pinkiee.roses@gmail.com writes:
 

Can I say also :

MOST men are too picky .... No matter how they look, they will always want to get the perfect match for them self and while lots of them are not even close to perfect :p

Let's not become a judge here :) I always believe that once love struck, we will not care about look etc. Being picky, uhmmm nothing wrong with that in my humble pinion, because we want to try to get the best for us.

If we don't care for our self then who will ? If its not us who try to get the best for our delf, then who will ? If one person decided to be too picky then its her/his own problem ... Don't like it then move on to another person. We can't force others to like us nor force our self to change to suit all other people in this world :)

Come on, don't u also have a list of ur desire partner ;)
Maybe you willing to share it with us ;)

Cheers
~Rose~


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MOST women are too picky! They need to look in the mirror and be honest with what they have to offer before they start making lists of demands for their partners. IMHO



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[asianamericanromance] Re: Money

Correctly !!!

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> Assets: $2M US!
>
>
>
>
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> With all this money talk-how much should I guy have to get a asian chick to
> marry them?
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RE: [asianamericanromance] Money



Assets: $2M US!

 

 

With all this money talk-how much should I guy have to get a asian chick to marry them?

 



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Re: [asianamericanromance] Money



rana441

For a simple wedding and being wise on the expenses, well i think 5thousand dollar will be good enough including ur airfare and honeymoon a decent wedding
too.

Thanks my idea.

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Subject: [asianamericanromance] Money
To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, January 18, 2038, 10:14 PM

 

With all this money talk-how much should I guy have to get a asian chick to marry them?




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Re: [asianamericanromance] Re:Are you being too picky?



Are you too picky, Rose?  Only if you are looking back at chances passed up with regret.  Otherwise, you simply haven't found the right person!  And the right one IS worth waiting for.
 
John S.
 
In a message dated 6/23/2010 7:29:19 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time, pinkiee.roses@gmail.com writes:
 

Hi John :)

Ahhhh happy to hear someone agree with me ;)

So I guess this is all what we do :
1 . Make a list of dream couple
2. Act on it - start searching
3. Love strucks
4. Throw away the list and accept the reality if the person not really match to our list ;)

Its sound sooooo simple but it is not :)

Some fails on the step 3 because they don't believe the love they feel and they keep searching the person on the list.

Some fails on the step 4 because they refuse to throw away the list and still searching for the one in the list even though they already had someone :)

But lots of happy couple also ..... Basically all back to our self. We have something in our hands, its up to us whether we want to use it or throw it away :)

But now I am wondering to my self, am I too picky ???? :p

Cheers
~Rose~


~Watch your habits, for they become your character. Develop your character, for it becomes your d estiny~
Sent with lots of best wishes and powered by Faith


From: simanton@aol.com
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Date: Wed, 23 Jun 2010 08:32:13 EDT
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Subject: Re: [asianamericanromance] Re:Are you being too picky?

 

Yes, Rose, it applies to both!  And love has a way of tearing up lists.
 
John S.
 
In a message dated 6/22/2010 11:02:44 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time, pinkiee.roses@gmail.com writes:
 

Can I say also :

MOST men are too picky .... No matter how they look, they will always want to get the perfect match for them self and while lots of them are not even close to perfect :p

Let's not become a judge here :) I always believe that once love struck, we will not care about look etc. Being picky, uhmmm nothing wrong with that in my humble pinion, because we want to try to get the best for us.

If we don't care for our self then who will ? If its not us who try to get the best for our delf, then who will ? If one person decided to be too picky then its her/his own problem ... Don't like it then move on to another person. We can't force others to like us nor force our self to change to suit all other people in this world :)

Come on, don't u also have a list of ur desire partner ;)
Maybe you willing to share it with us ;)

Cheers
~Rose~


~Watch your habits, for they become your character. Develop your character, for it becomes your destiny~
Sent with lots of best wishes and powered by Faith


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Subject: [asianamericanromance] Re:Are you being too picky?

 

MOST women are too picky! They need to look in the mirror and be honest with what they have to offer before they start making lists of demands for their partners. IMHO



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Re: [asianamericanromance] italian male in sunnyvale for asian female



Hi tony.. why give your number..? do you expect to be call up? just curious


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Subject: Re: [asianamericanromance] italian male in sunnyvale for asian female
To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, June 23, 2010, 8:20 PM

 

Hi Tony

Its nice of you to share a phone number here.
Is that yours ?? :)

Why don't you introduce your self to this group, am sure ladies wanna know more about you ;)

Cheers
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650-279-6339




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Re: [asianamericanromance] Re:Are you being too picky?



Ohhh the original Jerry

Then women are not picky at all :p
We are just having standard that not every men can accept just like Sharon who has her own standard ;)

Cheers
~Rose~

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From: "Just For Birds" <justforbirds@telus.net>
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Date: Wed, 23 Jun 2010 16:52:41 -0700
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Subject: RE: [asianamericanromance] Re:Are you being too picky?

 

Oh! Rose.

Let me count the ways thou art wrong.

Men aren't picky at all.

Just stand around a crowded bar at 1:00 a.m. and watch who walks out the door lovingly holding hands.

What's wrong with advertising for a leggy intelligent bikini contestant? Most men are dogs and don't end up getting the bone they really wanted because they think with the wrong head, anyways.

Nah; men aren't picky at all; only the few who have standards.

Same as women.

(signed)

Original Jerry

 

 

In a message dated 6/22/2010 11:02:44 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time, pinkiee.roses@gmail.com writes:

 

Can I say also :

MOST men are too picky .... No matter how they look, they will always want to get the perfect match for them self and while lots of them are not even close to perfect :p

Let's not become a judge here :) I always believe that once love struck, we will not care about look etc. Being picky, uhmmm nothing wrong with that in my humble pinion, because we want to try to get the best for us.

If we don't care for our self then who will ? If its not us who try to get the best for our delf, then who will ? If one person decided to be too picky then its her/his own problem ... Don't like it then move on to another person. We can't force others to like us nor force our self to change to suit all other people in this world :)

Come on, don't u also have a list of ur desire partner ;)
Maybe you willing to share it with us ;)

Cheers
~Rose~

~Watch your habits, for they become your character. Develop your character, for it becomes your destiny~
Sent with lots of best wishes and powered by Faith


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Subject: [asianamericanromance] Re:Are you being too picky?

 

 

MOST women are too picky! They need to look in the mirror and be honest with what they have to offer before they start making lists of demands for their partners. IMHO



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[asianamericanromance] Re: New Guy

Beni how are you. I english not good too but glad how i don't know find asian female for you english i no understand and asian female english is communication problem there. You no marry asian female because your self no know english so you don't bother asking.

--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, Arnaldo Beni <hab77@...> wrote:
>
>
> sharon how are you .i have ask you how do you find a asian female i am looking locally but the ones i chat with are married and are here my them self .I am just asking.?
>
>
>
> To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> From: lin.sharon123@...
> Date: Wed, 23 Jun 2010 07:05:49 +0000
> Subject: [asianamericanromance] Re: New Guy
>
>
>
>
>
> Hi Jerry n Rose,
>
> I am sort of against china bride ... :p
> I used to work in our national immigrantion agency and assist interviewing china bride... None I would say they got cool personality deeply in their soul.. :p Sorry if I jumped to a conclusion too subjective.
>
> Their gap between poor and rich are pretty worse, female were not regarded any important, so they were unlucky to grow in a fair environment. They would seize any straw reach to them.... I personally don't think they would really want to go back to China. I might be very wrong but I personally think that's because she is in US now that she wants more. Send her back to China alone for a month, she will definately love you more than before.
>
> Again... I am sort of against china bride ... :p Probably it's because they are more competitive than me. lol
>
> I am also curious about your case.
>
> cheers,
> Sharon
> --- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "Rose" <pinkiee.roses@> wrote:
> >
> > Hi Jerry
> >
> > Welcome.
> >
> > Sorry to hear your problem. I guess that is what we called marriage life ;) May I know what is your wife age ?
> >
> > Yes it could be cultural difference shock. She is now trying to adapt to her present situation and she did miss her family a lot. All her life, she was living with her family and now she feels lonely without them.
> >
> > Sleeping on the couch for 2 days .... Wow. Wanna share the problem ? Maybe we can help you here ? :)
> >
> > Sent on date 6/23/2010 time 07:22
> >
> >
> > ~Watch your habits, for they become your character. Develop your character, for it becomes your destiny~
> > Sent with lots of best wishes and powered by Faith
> >
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: "Captain Jerry" <CaptainJerry@>
> > Sender: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> > Date: Tue, 22 Jun 2010 22:22:28
> > To: <asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com>
> > Reply-To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> > Subject: [asianamericanromance] New Guy
> >
> > Hi,
> > I'm new here. My name is Jerry [I've been called "Captain Jerry" for a
> > very long time!] I live in Southern California [The O.C. Baby!] and I
> > work for KIA Motors America as a Senior Software Engineer [which just
> > means that I'm a programmer that's been around the block a few...
> > hundred times!] -- About 2 years ago I was in the middle of a very
> > devastating divorce, when I met this wonderful girl [online] from China.
> > We clicked BIG TIME, and embarked on getting her to the U.S. to be my
> > wife. I went to visit her once, and it took us 9 more months to get her
> > here. We were married 10 days after she stepped off the plane. Our
> > relationship has been up and down since... Usually good, sometimes
> > great, sometimes just okay, but when we're having problems, they are
> > really bad. She almost immediately jumps to wanting to go back to
> > China, permanently. Yes, she misses her family, but she is constantly
> > online with them, and doesn't seem to be bothered that she can't
> > actually be with them in person. I think our problems are more in the
> > area of cultural differences, but I'll get to that in a new post!
> > [She's been sleeping on the couch for the past 2 nights :-(
> > Jerry
> >
>


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Re: [asianamericanromance] Re:Are you being too picky?



Hi John :)

Ahhhh happy to hear someone agree with me ;)

So I guess this is all what we do :
1 . Make a list of dream couple
2. Act on it - start searching
3. Love strucks
4. Throw away the list and accept the reality if the person not really match to our list ;)

Its sound sooooo simple but it is not :)

Some fails on the step 3 because they don't believe the love they feel and they keep searching the person on the list.

Some fails on the step 4 because they refuse to throw away the list and still searching for the one in the list even though they already had someone :)

But lots of happy couple also ..... Basically all back to our self. We have something in our hands, its up to us whether we want to use it or throw it away :)

But now I am wondering to my self, am I too picky ???? :p

Cheers
~Rose~


~Watch your habits, for they become your character. Develop your character, for it becomes your destiny~
Sent with lots of best wishes and powered by Faith


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Subject: Re: [asianamericanromance] Re:Are you being too picky?

 

Yes, Rose, it applies to both!  And love has a way of tearing up lists.
 
John S.
 
In a message dated 6/22/2010 11:02:44 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time, pinkiee.roses@gmail.com writes:
 

Can I say also :

MOST men are too picky .... No matter how they look, they will always want to get the perfect match for them self and while lots of them are not even close to perfect :p

Let's not become a judge here :) I always believe that once love struck, we will not care about look etc. Being picky, uhmmm nothing wrong with that in my humble pinion, because we want to try to get the best for us.

If we don't care for our self then who will ? If its not us who try to get the best for our delf, then who will ? If one person decided to be too picky then its her/his own problem ... Don't like it then move on to another person. We can't force others to like us nor force our self to change to suit all other people in this world :)

Come on, don't u also have a list of ur desire partner ;)
Maybe you willing to share it with us ;)

Cheers
~Rose~


~Watch your habits, for they become your character. Develop your character, for it becomes your destiny~
Sent with lots of best wishes and powered by Faith


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MOST women are too picky! They need to look in the mirror and be honest with what they have to offer before they start making lists of demands for their partners. IMHO



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Hi Tony

Its nice of you to share a phone number here.
Is that yours ?? :)

Why don't you introduce your self to this group, am sure ladies wanna know more about you ;)

Cheers
~Rose~

~Watch your habits, for they become your character. Develop your character, for it becomes your destiny~
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650-279-6339



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Re: [asianamericanromance] Re: New Guy



Hi Sharon
We meet again ;)

I understand very well your point of view here and also understand why you think that way :) I can say I am not agree also with indonesian bride, coz they all do the same thing like you said and some cases even worst.

Probably what you said to send her back home is a good idea, but can be bad idea also :) Best is like what Fred said, Jerry (oooppsss I think I called a wrong name in my other email) must know what she has in her mind. No point in guessing what she wants and act base on what we thought she is thinking. If she said she is home sick, only then send her back home for holiday :)

Good luck to Jerry

Cheers
~Rose~


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From: "Sharon" <lin.sharon123@yahoo.com>
Sender: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wed, 23 Jun 2010 07:05:49 -0000
To: <asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com>
ReplyTo: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [asianamericanromance] Re: New Guy

 

Hi Jerry n Rose,

I am sort of against china bride ... :p
I used to work in our national immigrantion agency and assist interviewing china bride... None I would say they got cool personality deeply in their soul.. :p Sorry if I jumped to a conclusion too subjective.

Their gap between poor and rich are pretty worse, female were not regarded any important, so they were unlucky to grow in a fair environment. They would seize any straw reach to them.... I personally don't think they would really want to go back to China. I might be very wrong but I personally think that's because she is in US now that she wants more. Send her back to China alone for a month, she will definately love you more than before.

Again... I am sort of against china bride ... :p Probably it's because they are more competitive than me. lol

I am also curious about your case.

cheers,
Sharon
--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "Rose" <pinkiee.roses@...> wrote:
>
> Hi Jerry
>
> Welcome.
>
> Sorry to hear your problem. I guess that is what we called marriage life ;) May I know what is your wife age ?
>
> Yes it could be cultural difference shock. She is now trying to adapt to her present situation and she did miss her family a lot. All her life, she was living with her family and now she feels lonely without them.
>
> Sleeping on the couch for 2 days .... Wow. Wanna share the problem ? Maybe we can help you here ? :)
>
> Sent on date 6/23/2010 time 07:22
>
>
> ~Watch your habits, for they become your character. Develop your character, for it becomes your destiny~
> Sent with lots of best wishes and powered by Faith
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: "Captain Jerry" <CaptainJerry@...>
> Sender: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> Date: Tue, 22 Jun 2010 22:22:28
> To: <asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com>
> Reply-To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> Subject: [asianamericanromance] New Guy
>
> Hi,
> I'm new here. My name is Jerry [I've been called "Captain Jerry" for a
> very long time!] I live in Southern California [The O.C. Baby!] and I
> work for KIA Motors America as a Senior Software Engineer [which just
> means that I'm a programmer that's been around the block a few...
> hundred times!] -- About 2 years ago I was in the middle of a very
> devastating divorce, when I met this wonderful girl [online] from China.
> We clicked BIG TIME, and embarked on getting her to the U.S. to be my
> wife. I went to visit her once, and it took us 9 more months to get her
> here. We were married 10 days after she stepped off the plane. Our
> relationship has been up and down since... Usually good, sometimes
> great, sometimes just okay, but when we're having problems, they are
> really bad. She almost immediately jumps to wanting to go back to
> China, permanently. Yes, she misses her family, but she is constantly
> online with them, and doesn't seem to be bothered that she can't
> actually be with them in person. I think our problems are more in the
> area of cultural differences, but I'll get to that in a new post!
> [She's been sleeping on the couch for the past 2 nights :-(
> Jerry
>



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Re: [asianamericanromance] Re: New Guy--Captain Jerry



Hi Frederick

Its interesting and I do agree with you.

In any relationship, the very basic things we need is communications. Even though its sound easy, trust me its not easy at all.

I hope Jerry can create a good communication between him and his wife, and he is indeed need to work hard on this. Sometimes its typical chinese lady not to share her feelings and mind openly. Some of them perfer to keep it inside, for some reason, and finally it creates difficulty in relationship. I've been there ;)

Good luck to Jerry

Cheers
~Rose~



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From: Frederick Whiteside <fwhiteside@yahoo.com>
Sender: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wed, 23 Jun 2010 01:51:06 -0700 (PDT)
To: <asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com>
ReplyTo: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [asianamericanromance] Re: New Guy--Captain Jerry

 

Hi Jerry,
 
I have read your letter and also read what others have said.  Cultural differences can indeed be both vast and troublesome, especially in new relationships.  There can be many underlying problems that are not being addressed by your wife to you at this time.  Jerry, I cannot stress enough, the importance of getting her off the couch and back into your bedroom.  I am sure you know that one of the main keys to any relationship is the ability for couples to communicate everything with each other.
 
Please Jerry, fight your very hardest to persuade your wife to sit down with you and share her thoughts.  The two of you may need to bring in an outside person that does really know both of you, so that she does not feel like you are ganging up on her.  Have you tried addressing the issues and problems with your or her family?  Sometimes our parents and/or other family members have already experienced what you are going through now and can give you valid solutions.
 
I really wish you the very best in your relationship.  You obviously love your wife to the utmost and may be willing to endeavor outside of the box for an answer to your present and future problems.
 
Please keep the group updated, we are all here for one another.
 
Frederick Whiteside


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From: sullivan.john@ymail.com <sullivan.john@ymail.com>
Subject: [asianamericanromance] Re: New Guy
To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, June 23, 2010, 12:49 AM

 
Dear Captain Jerry:

Sorry to hear from anyone having too many negative experiences in a relationship. May I ask which "cultural differences" seem to be at the root of the problems?

John

--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "Captain Jerry" <CaptainJerry@...> wrote:
>
> Hi,
> I'm new here. My name is Jerry [I've been called "Captain Jerry" for a
> very long time!] I live in Southern California [The O.C. Baby!] and I
> work for KIA Motors America as a Senior Software Engineer [which just
> means that I'm a programmer that's been around the block a few...
> hundred times!] -- About 2 years ago I was in the middle of a very
> devastating divorce, when I met this wonderful girl [online] from China.
> We clicked BIG TIME, and embarked on getting her to the U.S. to be my
> wife. I went to visit her once, and it took us 9 more months to get her
> here. We were married 10 days after she stepped off the plane. Our
> relationship has been up and down since... Usually good, sometimes
> great, sometimes just okay, but when we're having problems, they are
> really bad. She almost immediately jumps to wanting to go back to
> China, permanently. Yes, she misses her family, but she is constantly
> online with them, and doesn't seem to be bothered that she can't
> actually be with them in person. I think our problems are more in the
> area of cultural differences, but I'll get to that in a new post!
> [She's been sleeping on the couch for the past 2 nights :-(
> Jerry
>




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RE: [asianamericanromance] Re:Are you being too picky?



Oh! Rose.

Let me count the ways thou art wrong.

Men aren't picky at all.

Just stand around a crowded bar at 1:00 a.m. and watch who walks out the door lovingly holding hands.

What's wrong with advertising for a leggy intelligent bikini contestant? Most men are dogs and don't end up getting the bone they really wanted because they think with the wrong head, anyways.

Nah; men aren't picky at all; only the few who have standards.

Same as women.

(signed)

Original Jerry

 

 

In a message dated 6/22/2010 11:02:44 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time, pinkiee.roses@gmail.com writes:

 

Can I say also :

MOST men are too picky .... No matter how they look, they will always want to get the perfect match for them self and while lots of them are not even close to perfect :p

Let's not become a judge here :) I always believe that once love struck, we will not care about look etc. Being picky, uhmmm nothing wrong with that in my humble pinion, because we want to try to get the best for us.

If we don't care for our self then who will ? If its not us who try to get the best for our delf, then who will ? If one person decided to be too picky then its her/his own problem ... Don't like it then move on to another person. We can't force others to like us nor force our self to change to suit all other people in this world :)

Come on, don't u also have a list of ur desire partner ;)
Maybe you willing to share it with us ;)

Cheers
~Rose~

~Watch your habits, for they become your character. Develop your character, for it becomes your destiny~
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From: rania441@yahoo.com

Sender: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com

Date: Tue, 19 Jan 2038 05:14:07 +0200

To: <asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com>

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Subject: [asianamericanromance] Re:Are you being too picky?

 

 

MOST women are too picky! They need to look in the mirror and be honest with what they have to offer before they start making lists of demands for their partners. IMHO



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RE: [asianamericanromance] Re: New Guy



Maybe we should tar and feather them before we ship them out of town on a rail.

I know several guys who have Chinese brides.

They thought they died and went to heaven.

And; Sharon: Taiwan is Chinese people, too. Do you lump yourself in with the mainland gals?

Nah, nah; I didn’t think so. Naughty, naughty. Busted, baby! But good.

What?! How different can that bit of water make people?

 

Advice to Captain Jerry:

Introspection is the best inspection.

Think of how well you’d be doin’ if we plucked your kiester up and planted it in the Gobe Desert.

So much for waterskiing and lounging around the pool in a polyester neon G-string.

Listen to the song “Little China Girl”.

Eat some crow and get her off the couch back and onto the marital Sealy.

That’s your #1 job today. Yes, today. I mean today.

Culture shock is monumental. I don’t know that my wife is entirely inured to NA culture; it’s been 15 years!

She is still shocked by some prices and won’t buy footwear that costs over $12.00.

Everything goes in plastic bags; drives me NUTS! NUTS! I tell ya’.

I digress.

Prior to my wife arriving on North America terra firma; I made contacts in the local community and found a Buddhist temple to go to.

Support ain’t only from a Wonder-bra.

My wife had a trip back home within 6 months and again within 18 months.

The 1st couple years are important and could be deal busters.

If you want this to work; get workin’.

Today Captain Jerry, today.

 

 

(signed):

Original Jerry(now that there are 2 of us)

 

 

From: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com [mailto:asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Sharon
Sent: Wednesday, June 23, 2010 12:06 AM
To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [asianamericanromance] Re: New Guy

 

 

Hi Jerry n Rose,

I am sort of against china bride ... :p
I used to work in our national immigrantion agency and assist interviewing china bride... None I would say they got cool personality deeply in their soul.. :p Sorry if I jumped to a conclusion too subjective.

Their gap between poor and rich are pretty worse, female were not regarded any important, so they were unlucky to grow in a fair environment. They would seize any straw reach to them.... I personally don't think they would really want to go back to China. I might be very wrong but I personally think that's because she is in US now that she wants more. Send her back to China alone for a month, she will definately love you more than before.

Again... I am sort of against china bride ... :p Probably it's because they are more competitive than me. lol

I am also curious about your case.

cheers,
Sharon
--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "Rose" <pinkiee.roses@...> wrote:
>
> Hi Jerry
>
> Welcome.
>
> Sorry to hear your problem. I guess that is what we called marriage life ;) May I know what is your wife age ?
>
> Yes it could be cultural difference shock. She is now trying to adapt to her present situation and she did miss her family a lot. All her life, she was living with her family and now she feels lonely without them.
>
> Sleeping on the couch for 2 days .... Wow. Wanna share the problem ? Maybe we can help you here ? :)
>
> Sent on date 6/23/2010 time 07:22
>
>
> ~Watch your habits, for they become your character. Develop your character, for it becomes your destiny~
> Sent with lots of best wishes and powered by Faith
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: "Captain Jerry" <CaptainJerry@...>
> Sender: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> Date: Tue, 22 Jun 2010 22:22:28
> To: <asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com>
> Reply-To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> Subject: [asianamericanromance] New Guy
>
> Hi,
> I'm new here. My name is Jerry [I've been called "Captain Jerry" for a
> very long time!] I live in Southern California [The O.C. Baby!] and I
> work for KIA Motors America as a Senior Software Engineer [which just
> means that I'm a programmer that's been around the block a few...
> hundred times!] -- About 2 years ago I was in the middle of a very
> devastating divorce, when I met this wonderful girl [online] from China.
> We clicked BIG TIME, and embarked on getting her to the U.S. to be my
> wife. I went to visit her once, and it took us 9 more months to get her
> here. We were married 10 days after she stepped off the plane. Our
> relationship has been up and down since... Usually good, sometimes
> great, sometimes just okay, but when we're having problems, they are
> really bad. She almost immediately jumps to wanting to go back to
> China, permanently. Yes, she misses her family, but she is constantly
> online with them, and doesn't seem to be bothered that she can't
> actually be with them in person. I think our problems are more in the
> area of cultural differences, but I'll get to that in a new post!
> [She's been sleeping on the couch for the past 2 nights :-(
> Jerry
>



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RE: [asianamericanromance] Re: New Guy



sharon how are you .i have ask you how do you find a asian female i am looking locally but the ones i chat with are married and are here my them self .I am just asking.?
 

To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
From: lin.sharon123@yahoo.com
Date: Wed, 23 Jun 2010 07:05:49 +0000
Subject: [asianamericanromance] Re: New Guy

 
Hi Jerry n Rose,

I am sort of against china bride ... :p
I used to work in our national immigrantion agency and assist interviewing china bride... None I would say they got cool personality deeply in their soul.. :p Sorry if I jumped to a conclusion too subjective.

Their gap between poor and rich are pretty worse, female were not regarded any important, so they were unlucky to grow in a fair environment. They would seize any straw reach to them.... I personally don't think they would really want to go back to China. I might be very wrong but I personally think that's because she is in US now that she wants more. Send her back to China alone for a month, she will definately love you more than before.

Again... I am sort of against china bride ... :p Probably it's because they are more competitive than me. lol

I am also curious about your case.

cheers,
Sharon
--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "Rose" <pinkiee.roses@...> wrote:
>
> Hi Jerry
>
> Welcome.
>
> Sorry to hear your problem. I guess that is what we called marriage life ;) May I know what is your wife age ?
>
> Yes it could be cultural difference shock. She is now trying to adapt to her present situation and she did miss her family a lot. All her life, she was living with her family and now she feels lonely without them.
>
> Sleeping on the couch for 2 days .... Wow. Wanna share the problem ? Maybe we can help you here ? :)
>
> Sent on date 6/23/2010 time 07:22
>
>
> ~Watch your habits, for they become your character. Develop your character, for it becomes your destiny~
> Sent with lots of best wishes and powered by Faith
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: "Captain Jerry" <CaptainJerry@...>
> Sender: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> Date: Tue, 22 Jun 2010 22:22:28
> To: <asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com>
> Reply-To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> Subject: [asianamericanromance] New Guy
>
> Hi,
> I'm new here. My name is Jerry [I've been called "Captain Jerry" for a
> very long time!] I live in Southern California [The O.C. Baby!] and I
> work for KIA Motors America as a Senior Software Engineer [which just
> means that I'm a programmer that's been around the block a few...
> hundred times!] -- About 2 years ago I was in the middle of a very
> devastating divorce, when I met this wonderful girl [online] from China.
> We clicked BIG TIME, and embarked on getting her to the U.S. to be my
> wife. I went to visit her once, and it took us 9 more months to get her
> here. We were married 10 days after she stepped off the plane. Our
> relationship has been up and down since... Usually good, sometimes
> great, sometimes just okay, but when we're having problems, they are
> really bad. She almost immediately jumps to wanting to go back to
> China, permanently. Yes, she misses her family, but she is constantly
> online with them, and doesn't seem to be bothered that she can't
> actually be with them in person. I think our problems are more in the
> area of cultural differences, but I'll get to that in a new post!
> [She's been sleeping on the couch for the past 2 nights :-(
> Jerry
>




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