The question is not how to start a relationship with western
(American) girl but WHY?
American Girls grow up believing in fairy tales. That some day they
will meet the "Perfect Prince" who will take them away to live a
perfect life. Free from any cares or worries. She want's a man who
is very confident of himself, who can stand up for himself to her and
others but not be arrogant or cruel. A man with a sense of humor who
can make her laugh and laugh at himself when he does something
foolish.
She wants a man who can provide for her but will also let her take
care of herself. You must be able to listen to her problems but never
try to fix them. Only talk about them. Value her but don't worship
her. Make her feel loved but at the same time make her worry just a
little that she is not pleasing to you. You must be willing to
suffer the frustration of never being able to fully make her happy
100% of the time because no matter how good you may be, someone she
knew before always did something better. You must also know that
American women spend their lives learning to disrespect men and they
believe it is their job to to destroy our egos and frustrate and
confuse us. They will spend many weeks with you in email
conversations and cause you to believe they like you then tell you
they don't date or they have a boyfriend when you ask to have a face
to face conversation.
My friend, American women are the most challenging women you will ever
come across. This is why more and more men are turning to native born
Asian women like from Philippines or Thailand.
Good luck.
Chris
P.S. NEVER...EVER. ..BEG!! Always be willing to walk away if she
disrespects you. That should apply to any woman anywhere.
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asianamericanromanc e@yahoogroups. com, "fabian riza kurnia"
<fabianriza@ ...> wrote:
>
> my name bian,I'm indonesian
> I have a problem with my CCU(Cross Cultural Understanding) class,
> because I've an assignment for my report.
> on the other hand I interested with western girl n I don't know how
to
> start it
> I just want to know your opinion about the western girl and how to
> make a good relationship with her(the girl)
> if you have an experience about couple asian american you can tell
me
> how they are..
> please reply soon...
>
