William:
#1: learn to use spell check otherwise you’re wearing your education poorly or shouldn’t be anywhere’s near a keyboard to advertise your lack.
#2: if you have any doubts now: better run; your doubts are probably based on real concerns
#3: don’t become “the shining knight out to save her”’ she’s already divorcing one husband and has 3 kids
#4: what do you expect after only 1 month? Get real Man, get real!!
#5: why would you “ask” her to share the expenses; all for one and one for all; like watch the 3 Musketeers.
#6: if you’re worried she just wants you for a green card……again: if you have these nagging doubts but are willing to make
a commitment after only knowing her for a month………….
#7: you actually sound quite desperate
#8: what’s wrong with some new bedding? That’s like what $200 at Walmart? A cheap wedding gift(cheaper than a honey moon).
Don’t forget the beds and bedding for the 3 kids; better budget $1,000, now.
#9: will she listen to you…….man: you never been married before? What woman listens? A man will chase women until one catches him.
#10: will she love you? If you gotta ask us……..you be in some big whoop-ass trouble, bubba
#11: you or her boss? Is this a boss with extracurricular benefits or what? If she starts taking off too
much time and loses her job guess whose fault it will be and guess who will be holding the bag, Bud. It ain’t us.
#12: if she’s not taking time off now…..like when do you two get together or is this just a bootie call while the kids are sleepin’?
Or: do the kids watch? I mean: where do you find the time/place? It involves some romance. So: like how involved can you be with her?
#13: if she’s still in China and you’re here; how can you say you’re involved with her. Engaged after only a month and she’s in China?
Get a grip.
If she’s already in the contiguous 49 states; then she should already have a green card.
#14: where are the kids, now? You gotta make plans for them, too. Or: is she gonna drop them like a used condom?
If that’s the case: guess where you’re standin’? Yup; you be standin’ in her way of something else.
William: in consideration of your questions and spelling; I gotta tell ya: you need to be thinkin’ with the right head.
You don’t seem like you’re even the consolation prize and she’s already turfed one hubby and has living baggage(3 kids).
Depending upon how desperate or deluded you are; maybe she’s the real deal for you.
To be honest: go to “Dates in Asia” web site and pick door #2.
Remember: you will only get a wife as good as what you have to give her.
It’s quite like winning a lottery.
1 chance in 14,000,000.
As Clint Eastwood asked “Are ya feelin’ lucky today?”
Then: he shot the guy dead.
So: William: “Are ya feelin’ lucky?”
If you’re studying: you better get a basic beginner book or Coles Notes.
Maybe “Leap Frog for Love”, or; get a Wii.
Jerry (not the captain)
From: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com [mailto:asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of WILL
Sent: Saturday, December 18, 2010 6:13 PM
To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [asianamericanromance] New with my Chinese fieancee need advice....lots!!!
I'm William 38yr white male involved with a 36 yr married with 3kids Chinese woman from Beijing china here in USA on work visa only....we been together 1month and are engaged to be married she is in divorce now and when done we are to be married.... She is a slave to her boss and her boss owns her....seriously....this is really pissing me off her boss makes her work 14 hr days and stay with her she wont let us live together yet, mabye in Jan I was told....I have so many questions I don't know where to start so I'll list a few I need now.......
1 when we live together can I ask her to help pay with the bills or am I supposed to pay everything......
2can I ask her to work less and take 2 days off so we can be together and do stuff
3 worried she marry me for green card , how can I tell if she will stay with me or if just for card
4 she says its custom for me to buy her clothes sheets and stuff when she move in...
5 she torn between me and work witch is she supposed to favor more me or her boss?
6 when we marry will she listen to my advice and do as I ask when it comes to important issues like family and time together? Will she be loyal and loving?
I'm not sure what to expect,,,,
If you need more info to answer questions just ask I will add info asap...
Thanks very much
I'm only in it for the love and want it to last forever so I been studying everything I can
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