Asian American Romance: Re: [asianamericanromance] Re: how to start relationship with western girl

Chris

I echo some of your sentiment

Let me ask

How much experience have you had with american women
I ask to see what you write is your perception or actual experience

Thanks

S
On Sep 16, 2008, at 3:42 PM, Chris wrote:

> The question is not how to start a relationship with western
> (American) girl but WHY?
> American Girls grow up believing in fairy tales. That some day they
> will meet the "Perfect Prince" who will take them away to live a
> perfect life. Free from any cares or worries. She want's a man who
> is very confident of himself, who can stand up for himself to her and
> others but not be arrogant or cruel. A man with a sense of humor who
> can make her laugh and laugh at himself when he does something
> foolish.
> She wants a man who can provide for her but will also let her take
> care of herself. You must be able to listen to her problems but never
> try to fix them. Only talk about them. Value her but don't worship
> her. Make her feel loved but at the same time make her worry just a
> little that she is not pleasing to you. You must be willing to
> suffer the frustration of never being able to fully make her happy
> 100% of the time because no matter how good you may be, someone she
> knew before always did something better. You must also know that
> American women spend their lives learning to disrespect men and they
> believe it is their job to to destroy our egos and frustrate and
> confuse us. They will spend many weeks with you in email
> conversations and cause you to believe they like you then tell you
> they don't date or they have a boyfriend when you ask to have a face
> to face conversation.
>
> My friend, American women are the most challenging women you will ever
> come across. This is why more and more men are turning to native born
> Asian women like from Philippines or Thailand.
>
> Good luck.
>
> Chris
>
> P.S. NEVER...EVER...BEG!! Always be willing to walk away if she
> disrespects you. That should apply to any woman anywhere.
> --- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "fabian riza kurnia"
> <fabianriza@...> wrote:
> >
> > my name bian,I'm indonesian
> > I have a problem with my CCU(Cross Cultural Understanding) class,
> > because I've an assignment for my report.
> > on the other hand I interested with western girl n I don't know how
> to
> > start it
> > I just want to know your opinion about the western girl and how to
> > make a good relationship with her(the girl)
> > if you have an experience about couple asian american you can tell
> me
> > how they are..
> > please reply soon...
> >
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