Asian American Romance: [asianamericanromance] Re: farong

I know that you have heard many peoples thoughts on this matter, and
mine are simular. Here is a short version of my story.

I had been looking for an Asian wife for some time. I was in many
Personals sites looking for Asian ladies. Many of the ladies I found
were looking for someone to send them money. I found one nice lady in
China, went over to meet her. She was looking for someome with much
more money than I have. While in China I was still keeping up with my
E-mail, I saw another lady I liked in one of the cities I was staying
in. So I set up a meeting with her. She was nice, but we were not
compatable.

Anyway I then met another lady through another personals site. Like
the first lady we e-mailed often for some time. I went to China to
meet this lady. She was just what she claimed to be:) When I was
there with her and her family, they would slap my hand each time I
reached for my wallet to try to help pay for things. I did marry this
lady while I was in China, and am now working in getting her into the
States. This is the hard part.

None of these ladies ever asked me for money. My wife does not
want me to send her money. I have asked her many times if she would
like me to send her anything to help her and her family, but she
always says NO! She knows that I am not rich, and we need
to save our money. I have posted some photos of us on this site
earlier.

Well that is my story. In short, if they ask for money, then I think
they are looking for money. And sometimes even if they do not ask for
money, that is what they are looking for. To find a lady that is not
looking for money, from anywhere, is hard to do. Just keep looking,
she is out there. I guess this was not so short;)

Steven A.

--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, terry jordan
<tfjordan123@...> wrote:
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> thanks everyone. and yes I believe I just need to stop talking to
her at all.
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> --- On Thu, 1/15/09, malcom <wargalley20011@...> wrote:
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> From: malcom <wargalley20011@...>
> Subject: [asianamericanromance] Re: farong
> To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> Date: Thursday, January 15, 2009, 2:13 PM
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> This sounds like a scam. She might be trolling for johns. You
> probably shouldn't give her money till after you meet her, and see
> how she lives. You need to find someone with a good education, and
> profession. I.E. Doctor, lawyer. They will be glad to show you
their
> creditals after you get to know them.
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> malcom
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> --- In asianamericanromanc e@yahoogroups. com, terry jordan
> <tfjordan123@ ...> wrote:
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> > I meet and talk to an asian woman on internet but she asked me
for
> money. now I feel I can't trust her because always wonder if she
> loves me or thhe money. just need some advise here because still
> like her.
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> > --- On Thu, 1/15/09, Dale J. Flaherty <pattpong3@ ..> wrote:
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> > From: Dale J. Flaherty <pattpong3@ ..>
> > Subject: [asianamericanroman ce] Re: farong
> > To: asianamericanromanc e@yahoogroups. com
> > Date: Thursday, January 15, 2009, 11:01 AM
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> > Yes, Gina and I been married for 30 years and I am very happily
in
> > love. Sometimes I have little doubts about Gina.
> > It seems about 25% of the Asian American couples I have known
have
> > gotten divorce.
> > Possibly some Asian ladies place too much importance on money.
> > Dale
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> > --- In asianamericanromanc e@yahoogroups. com, rick gsell
> > <possibilityofhappi ness@> wrote:
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> > > Does anyone know of an asian american couple that are in love???
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