Re: [asianamericanromance] Re: farong - Forwarded by Fefe

I have to say that I was very naive !! the guy who got married was probably more naive than me as his wife ran away after the marriage. I can see now it was all about the money for them and I have heard so many horror stories since then.  I really thought that this girl was a soul mate for me and it was all destiny. Too many Disney movies growing up I guess. It makes me sad to think that there is no innocence in the world.I don't blame her at all as she was just doing what she was supposed to do for her family.  I guess I just wanted to believe in fantasies --- On Wed, 1/14/09, Felicia Umstead <hellofeli88@yahoo.com> wrote: From: Felicia Umstead <hellofeli88@yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [asianamericanromance] Re: farong - Forwarded by Fefe To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com Date: Wednesday, January 14, 2009, 5:10 AM Hey John,   Remember this group?  I usually delete them when they come in but for some reasons I was bored driving so I read that on the way to work this morning.  But oh God!  Who is sicker?  The girl?  The girl's parents?  The guys?  Are people in those countries really that desperate to come to this country or so naive to think that everyone in America is so rich and so easy to be brided by some Asian-looking girls?  Unfortunately I do know there are a lot of not-so-bright American men got suck into scam like that!  SAD!   Fefe --- On Wed, 1/14/09, malcom <wargalley20011@ yahoo.com> wrote: From: malcom <wargalley20011@ yahoo.com> Subject: [asianamericanroman ce] Re: farong To: asianamericanromanc e@yahoogroups. com Date: Wednesday, January 14, 2009, 2:05 AM In the first place it's a bad idea to try, and have a relatioship with a child. She's not mature in feelings, and heart. You should know better as well. This sounds like a scam. She might also have other boyfriends. You need to find someone older. malcom --- In asianamericanromanc e@yahoogroups. com, rick gsell <possibilityofhappi ness@...> wrote: > > Hi,I just found this group and thought I would see whats up!! > My story,the short version. > I went to Thailand in 2006 with some friends and met a beautiful young girl at one of the guys I was with wedding. She was a dancer at the wedding.we were introduced though the village school teacher. I was with an English man and his Thai wife.It turns out that she was 14. The English guy says"age makes no difference in Thailand",I wanted to believe so I did. > She lives with her grandparents. the grandfather said 200,000 baht and you can marry now.I said what?!? Then I find out I can go to jail for being with a girl under 18. I must be crazy but I was in love,the connection was very strong. I decided I would support her so she could go to school and we could get married when she was 18.I also went back to Thailand every April and October.So the phone calls and e-mails ensued. I miss you ,I love you basically. my last trip I realize she doesn't love me,in fact I think she resents me.Why?,all I have done is love and support her( no sex).Then I realize she has been telling me she loves me so I keep sending support money,of course!! She has done this because she has to for the family.So It all came undone.It has settled now and she was not sure what she was going to do,most likely sell her ass at god knows where. I still love here and could not stand the thought of that, so I sorta became like a poppa figure and > now send her a small amount so she can continue with English school and stay with her grand parents. My question is this, do Thai girls ever really love their farongs??? or is it always for money??? > Really,I guess I'm asking do you think she could ever love me or will it always be about money. >

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