Re: [asianamericanromance] New with my Chinese fieancee need advice....lots!!!

William, there is a saying......when in Rome do as the Romans do.  What is the norm in China is certaintly not the norm in the United States.  Just from what you wrote and some of your questions I would say be careful.  It is the norm for man and wife to share expense.   She needs to understand that.  You may just need to grow some balls and let her know how it is.  Do not let her lead you around like a little puppy dog.  Just my opinion --- On Sat, 12/18/10, WILL <wmillette@yahoo.com> wrote: From: WILL <wmillette@yahoo.com> Subject: [asianamericanromance] New with my Chinese fieancee need advice....lots!!! To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com Date: Saturday, December 18, 2010, 6:13 PM   I'm William 38yr white male involved with a 36 yr married with 3kids Chinese woman from Beijing china here in USA on work visa only....we been together 1month and are engaged to be married she is in divorce now and when done we are to be married.... She is a slave to her boss and her boss owns her....seriously....this is really pissing me off her boss makes her work 14 hr days and stay with her she wont let us live together yet, mabye in Jan I was told....I have so many questions I don't know where to start so I'll list a few I need now....... 1 when we live together can I ask her to help pay with the bills or am I supposed to pay everything...... 2can I ask her to work less and take 2 days off so we can be together and do stuff 3 worried she marry me for green card , how can I tell if she will stay with me or if just for card 4 she says its custom for me to buy her clothes sheets and stuff when she move in... 5 she torn between me and work witch is she supposed to favor more me or her boss? 6 when we marry will she listen to my advice and do as I ask when it comes to important issues like family and time together? Will she be loyal and loving? I'm not sure what to expect,,,, If you need more info to answer questions just ask I will add info asap... Thanks very much I'm only in it for the love and want it to last forever so I been studying everything I can

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