Hi,
I'm new here. My name is Jerry [I've been called "Captain Jerry" for a very long time!] I live in Southern California [The O.C. Baby!] and I work for KIA Motors America as a Senior Software Engineer [which just means that I'm a programmer that's been around the block a few... hundred times!] -- About 2 years ago I was in the middle of a very devastating divorce, when I met this wonderful girl [online] from China. We clicked BIG TIME, and embarked on getting her to the U.S. to be my wife. I went to visit her once, and it took us 9 more months to get her here. We were married 10 days after she stepped off the plane. Our relationship has been up and down since... Usually good, sometimes great, sometimes just okay, but when we're having problems, they are really bad. She almost immediately jumps to wanting to go back to China, permanently. Yes, she misses her family, but she is constantly online with them, and doesn't seem to be bothered that she can't actually be with them in person. I think our problems are more in the area of cultural differences, but I'll get to that in a new post! [She's been sleeping on the couch for the past 2 nights :-(
Jerry
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