Sorry to hear from anyone having too many negative experiences in a relationship. May I ask which "cultural differences" seem to be at the root of the problems?
John
--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "Captain Jerry" <CaptainJerry@...> wrote:
>
> Hi,
> I'm new here. My name is Jerry [I've been called "Captain Jerry" for a
> very long time!] I live in Southern California [The O.C. Baby!] and I
> work for KIA Motors America as a Senior Software Engineer [which just
> means that I'm a programmer that's been around the block a few...
> hundred times!] -- About 2 years ago I was in the middle of a very
> devastating divorce, when I met this wonderful girl [online] from China.
> We clicked BIG TIME, and embarked on getting her to the U.S. to be my
> wife. I went to visit her once, and it took us 9 more months to get her
> here. We were married 10 days after she stepped off the plane. Our
> relationship has been up and down since... Usually good, sometimes
> great, sometimes just okay, but when we're having problems, they are
> really bad. She almost immediately jumps to wanting to go back to
> China, permanently. Yes, she misses her family, but she is constantly
> online with them, and doesn't seem to be bothered that she can't
> actually be with them in person. I think our problems are more in the
> area of cultural differences, but I'll get to that in a new post!
> [She's been sleeping on the couch for the past 2 nights :-(
> Jerry
>
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