Asian American Romance: [asianamericanromance] Re: My criterion in hubby

Hi Rose n John,

That's sweet bless n also from me happily ever after in marriage.

Sharon

--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "Rose" <pinkiee.roses@...> wrote:
>
> Hi John,
>
> Nice to read your reply below, and from the bottom of my heart I really wish that you both will live happilly ever after :)
>
> Once you both understand each other needs then the next thing to develop is good communication :) without good communication it is difficult. I do believe someway or rather people do change :)
>
> I can say this all base on my own experience especially if its a mixed cultural relationship or marriage, need more efforts :)
>
> Best wishes for you both
> Cheers
> Rose
>
>
>
> Happiness - To appreciate what we have and to be able to enjoy them
> Sent with lots of best wishes and powered by Faith
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: simanton@...
> Sender: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> Date: Sun, 13 Jun 2010 01:02:01
> To: <asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com>
> Reply-To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> Subject: Re: [asianamericanromance] Re: My criterion in hubby
>
> I quite agree, Rose!
>
> I would not call myself wealthy, but I have a nice house and enough income
> to keep my fiancee and myself in comfort. We're happy and so it seems to
> work nicely all around!
>
> Best wishes!
>
> John S.
>
>
> In a message dated 6/12/2010 6:26:19 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time,
> pinkiee.roses@... writes:
>
>
>
> Hi John
>
> Thank you for your comment :)
>
> I always believe that good marriage or good relationship must come from
> both parties effort :)
>
> Cheers
> Rose
>
> Happiness - To appreciate what we have and to be able to enjoy them
> Sent with lots of best wishes and powered by Faith
> ____________________________________
>
> From: simanton@...
> Sender: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> Date: Sat, 12 Jun 2010 13:30:34 EDT
> To: <asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com>
> ReplyTo: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> Subject: Re: [asianamericanromance] Re: My criterion in hubby
>
>
>
> Very sensible!
>
> John S.
>
>
> In a message dated 6/12/2010 2:13:31 A.M. Pacific Daylight Time,
> pinkiee.roses@In a message date
>
>
>
> Hi sharon :)
>
> Thank you for your comment :)
>
> I am thinking now, should I say my criterion in hubby too ? :)
> Well what the heck .... I am a gal with a dream for my own future also but
> maybe a bit more simple than you(is it :p), could be because of the way I
> am raised up.
>
> He must be a loving person, and a responsable person. I rather have a bit
> of freedom of my own where I can work and earn for saving :)
> He must treat me equally, coz from my friends experience, some men do
> treat the wife / partner like maid.
> He must be a bit funny too of course ;)
> He must be a stable person where got saving uhmmmm say at least $100k
> which is enough for minimum of 5 years comfortable living in my country with
> careful budgetting.
> He must have a house, own house so there will be no worry where are we
> gonna stay next and hassle of moving from one house to another :)
>
> Opppsssss by having such criterions, should I be a pretty girl ? :)
>
> Let's have discussion in here .... Men please do tell what is your
> criterion od wife :)
>
> Sent on date 6/12/2010 time 15:15
>
> Happiness - To appreciate what we have and to be able to enjoy them
> Sent with lots of best wishes and powered by Faith
> ____________________________________
>
> From: "Sharon" <lin.sharon123@...>
> Sender: asianamericanromancasianamericanrasia
> Date: Sat, 12 Jun 2010 06:04:20 -0000
> To: <asianamericanromancasianamericanrasi>
> ReplyTo: asianamericanromancasianamericanrasia
> Subject: [asianamericanroman[asianamericanroman<WBR>ce] Re: My
>
>
>
> Hi Rose,
>
> That's a beautiful statment in your previous message.
>
> A common topic is easier to attract responding I guess since everyone has
> his/her criterion in gf/bf or wiffy/hubby. We are simply part of the
> natural world as a prime kind of creature. We are developing our civilization n
> society where family is the basic unite, hence mate play an important role.
>
> Your modest comment is a fresh to this topic and I believe you would have
> a lovely hubby.
>
> cheers,
> Sharon
>
> --- In_asianamericanromancasianamericanrasi_
> (mailto:asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com) , "Rose" <pinkiee.roses@pin> wrote:
> >
> > Hi,
> >
> > Been watching this group lately and well -sorry- I said at least now
> this group alive. In all the yahoo groups I join, there will always be passive
> members and tend to hide behind the scene. But past few days, this group
> started to 'alive' even with cynical comments.
> >
> > I am just an ordinary person, am not an american, am not thai also -
> even tho I wish to be one coz I find most of thai ladies are really pretty-
> and I join this group in hope of finding friennds :)
> >
> > Sharon got every rights to say what she wants in a man whom she wants to
> be her husband. And who we are have a right to judge other people wants,
> other people dreams ? Each people has their own dream and needs, and its up
> to them how they want it. Its a free world.
> >
> > And just like all the girls in the world, maybe including me :p, wants
> to have better husband, better future. Especially once we enter marriage
> life, its not about man and woman only but also goot kids to think about.
> Isn't it better oif we can see all from the bright side instead of the dark
> side ?
> >
> > Its just my 2cents :)
> > Hope this group will become the best group :)
> >
> > Cheers
> > Rose
> >
> >
> > Happiness - To appreciate what we have and to be able to enjoy them
> > Sent with lots of best wishes and powered by Faith
> >
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: "Sharon" <lin.sharon123@lin>
> > Sender:_asianamericanromancasianamericanrasi_
> (mailto:asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com)
> > Date: Thu, 10 Jun 2010 23:56:50
> > To: <_asianamericanromancasianamericanrasi_
> (mailto:asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com) >
> > Reply-To:_asianamericanromancasianamericanrasi_
> (mailto:asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com)
> > Subject: [asianamericanroman Subject: [asianamerica
> >
> > Hi Mike,
> >
> > (1)You said you are married but you browsed on this website and even
> involved your son to course together with you on here.
> >
> > (2)You rephrase our words into a bad side.
> >
> > (3)I have never lived in English speaking countries, that's why I am not
> familiar with English.
> >
> > (4)I think the group offer a cool channcel for free expression n that's
> why our post is on here.
> >
> >
> > Sharon
> >
> > --- In_asianamericanromancasianamericanrasi_
> (mailto:asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com) , Mike Kosak <mwk_14059@> wrote:
> > >
> > > fuck off Steve you wuss
> > > ?
> > > For the record, this is my last post-, but let me give a history for
> the new joiners to this thread who seem not to have been paying attention to
> the start of it.
> > > ?
> > > 1) someone named Sharon sent an email posting herself available for a
> man with $2million USD
> > > ?
> > > 2) MANY (!!!) people? replied that she was offering herself for sale
> like a whore, others suggesting she was too old to be worth that kind of
> money, over the hill, christmas cake (?).? etc.etc..?
> > > ?
> > > 3) Sharon replied many times again, in language that seemed to
> indicate she was not very familiar with english language and/or culture
> > > ?
> > > 4) I THEN TRIED TO DEFEND?Sharon - suggesting that she be given the
> benefit of the doubt (this is after all a site to discuss asian-american
> romance and the difference in culture that may arise)?
> > > ?
> > > 5) Khwan replied that I was wrong and revealed her thoughts about
> american men being fat ugly and old, and looking for young sexy asian because
> they cannot find it at home,?and also that men want a maid servant and baby
> factory.? Khwan also said that since men 'make a list' of things, it was OK
> for Sharon to make demands too.
> > > ?
> > > 6) I replied that her comment was pretty cynical (for the moderator of
> a group) and she revealed a little more of her thoughts about amercian men
> then she might have wanted to (being the moderator of the group here)
> > > ?
> > > 7) Khwan, missing the boat ENTIRELY, replied in a rude and demeaning
> manner and even brought my children into the discussion
> > > ?
> > > 8) I caller her a bitch for her bitchiness (and dont forget- we now
> also know what the MODERATOR of the group thinks about fat, old, ugly
> american men)
> > > ?
> > > 9) other people chimed in with their name calling
> > > ?
> > > This group is NOT well led, and the members are prone to knee-jerk
> name calling and insulting behavior.
> > > ?
> > > So... please some one either remove my name from this group or tell me
> how I do it.
> > > ?
> > > ?
> > >
> > >
> > > --- On Thu, 6/10/10, Steve Goldade <stevegoldade@> wrote:
> > >
> > >
> > > From: Steve Goldade <stevegoldade@>
> > > Subject: Re: [asianamericanroman Subject: Re: [asianame
> > > To:_asianamericanromancasianamericanrasi_
> (mailto:asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com)
> > > Date: Thursday, June 10, 2010, 11:39 AM
> > >
> > >
> > > ?
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > Khwan
> > > ?
> > > From another man, I truely support your thoughts. This dud appears to
> be a real jerk.
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > From: Khwan <khwan@khwan. com>
> > > To: asianamericanromanc e@yahoogroups. com
> > > Sent: Wed, June 9, 2010 8:15:10 PM
> > > Subject: [asianamericanroman ce] Re: My criterion in hubby
> > >
> > > ?
> > >
> > > What a sad little man you must really be.
> > >
> > > As soon as a woman says something you do not agree with you call them
> whores and bitches.
> > >
> > > Is this how your mother raised you to treat women?
> > >
> > > No need to post a reply. This Group has had enough disrespect and name
> calling from you.
> > >
> > > Consider yourself not welcome to post here any more in the future
> until you learn to respect women.
> > >
> > > KHWAN
> > >
> > > --- In asianamericanromanc e@yahoogroups. com, Mike Kosak <mwk_14059@
> .> wrote:
> > > >
> > > > wow- what a bitch you are
> > > >
> > > >
> > > > --- On Wed, 6/9/10, Khwan <khwan@> wrote:
> > > >
> > > >
> > > > From: Khwan <khwan@>
> > > > Subject: [asianamericanroman ce] Re: My criterion in hubby
> > > > To: asianamericanromanc e@yahoogroups. com
> > > > Date: Wednesday, June 9, 2010, 6:43 PM
> > > >
> > > >
> > > > ??
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >
> > > > Mike:
> > > >
> > > > I fear that it is you who revealed more about yourself than you
> think.
> > > >
> > > > I NEVER called ALL men who go to Asia "fat, ugly, poor, slobs".
> Maybe you see yourself as that and see my words as reflection of poor
> self-image? I said that many men who not considered attractive or older in USA go to
> Asia to find younger girlfriends and wives. The reason is simple-they not
> want older and less attractive women in the USA. This is the reason why so
> many people here prejudice over lady older than 30 years old-and this
> criticism coming from men 45-60 years old.
> > > >
> > > > As for revealing yourself more-I think any man who calls a woman he
> never met a "whore" has no respect for women in general. And the type of
> man who has this little respect is exactly the kind of man that sadly often
> looks to women of other countries for a relationship. Maybe you think it OK
> to call women whores because you not agree with them-I do not. It is rude
> and shows lack of education and manners and respect.
> > > >
> > > > Again. I not say this is for ALL men. But I think most women would
> have little to do with a man who disrepects women like you have.
> > > >
> > > > KHWAN
> > > >
> > > > --- In asianamericanromanc e@yahoogroups. com, Mike Kosak
> <mwk_14059@> wrote:
> > > > >
> > > > > your opion that all the men who went to asia are fat ugly poor
> slobs is the cynical part
> > > > > ??Å¡??šÃ?
> > > > > the idiots who posted that she was over 30 were stupid too.
> > > > > ??Å¡??šÃ?
> > > > > They revealed themselves for the idiots they are, but she started
> out by coming on as a gold digging whore
> > > > > ??Å¡??šÃ?
> > > > >
> > > > >
> > > > > --- On Wed, 6/9/10, Khwan <khwan@> wrote:
> > > > >
> > > > >
> > > > > From: Khwan <khwan@>
> > > > > Subject: [asianamericanroman ce] Re: My criterion in hubby
> > > > > To: asianamericanromanc e@yahoogroups. com
> > > > > Date: Wednesday, June 9, 2010, 5:44 PM
> > > > >
> > > > >
> > > > > ??Å¡??šÃ?
> > > > >
> > > > >
> > > > >
> > > > > What part I say is cynical? It is true. MANY older men in the West
> (USA) go to Asia to find younger girls.
> > > > >
> > > > > Look at the posts here for the last few days.
> > > > >
> > > > > EVERY man who posted against Shannon was over 45. And yet they
> were critical of her because she was over 30. Spoiled milk someone called her.
>
> > > > >
> > > > > Is that not double standard?
> > > > >
> > > > > I not say this 100% of the men who are in relationships with Asian
> woman. But if you not think it common-I think your eyes are closed.
> > > > >
> > > > > KHWAN
> > > > >
> > > > > --- In asianamericanromanc e@yahoogroups. com, Mike Kosak
> <mwk_14059@> wrote:
> > > > > >
> > > > > > wow- i think you might have revealed a little more about your
> cynical attitude toward american man than you might have intended
> > > > > > ???Â¢?Â¬?Â¡??Ã¢?¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ?
> > > > > >
> > > > > >
> > > > > > --- On Wed, 6/9/10, Khwan <khwan@> wrote:
> > > > > >
> > > > > >
> > > > > > From: Khwan <khwan@>
> > > > > > Subject: [asianamericanroman ce] Re: My criterion in hubby
> > > > > > To: asianamericanromanc e@yahoogroups. com
> > > > > > Date: Wednesday, June 9, 2010, 4:15 PM
> > > > > >
> > > > > >
> > > > > > ???Â¢?Â¬?Â¡??Ã¢?¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ?
> > > > > >
> > > > > >
> > > > > >
> > > > > >
> > > > > >
> > > > > > --- In asianamericanromanc e@yahoogroups. com, Mike Kosak
> <mwk_14059@> wrote:
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > > SHE STARTED IT!???'??Â¢?Â¢?Å¡?Â¬??¦Ã‚Â¡ÃƒÆ'Ã??Â¢?Â¬?Â¡??Ã¢?¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ???
> ?'?'??Â¢?Â¢?Å¡?Â¬??¦Ã‚Â¡ÃƒÆ'Ã??Â¢?Â¬?Â¡??Ã¢?¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ????'?'??Â¢?Â¢?Å¡?Â¬??¦Ã‚Â¡ÃƒÆ'Ã??Â¢?Â¬?Â¡??Ã¢?¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ?
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > > Ok now that we have received a few more responses from her it
> is starting to seem more like a cultural difference
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > > In this country expressing how much assets you demand of your
> furutre husband is not going to go over very big.???'??Â¢?Â¢?Å¡?Â¬??¦Ã‚Â¡ÃƒÆ?
> ?'?Â¢?Â¬?Â¡??Ã¢?¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ?It makes you sound like you have a price tag for your
> 'services' and we know what that is called (prostitution)
> > > > > > >
> > > > > >
> > > > > > I understand this point of view.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > At same time-I understand her point of view. Men so many times
> look to Asia for girlfriends and wives because they not can find same in
> their country.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > They have big long list of what they want:
> > > > > >
> > > > > > Young. Pretty. Work hard like maid to take care of house.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > Give husband children or take care of children husband have.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > And these lists come from older men who are overweight and not
> attractive or not have good jobs. These men not can find sexy young girls in
> USA that want to date them. So they think that they can find that in Asia.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > So if men have list of what they want-what is wrong with women
> have same list?
> > > > > >
> > > > > > > And I wonder if you understand the value of $2million USD- it
> is less than 1% of the population that has that kind of money (that would
> be considered very very rich)
> > > > > > >
> > > > > >
> > > > > > That is still 3,000,000 people. So it not impossible to find.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > And again. I go back to what I say before. Why is this bad when
> men have long list of what they want in Asia girl-a list that they could
> never find in the USA?
> > > > > >
> > > > > > ???Â¢?Â¬?Â¡??Ã¢?¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ?
> > > > > >
> > > > > > > One potential girl friend I met told me her family expected me
> to pay them $1million USD for marriage to her.???'??Â¢?Â¢?Å¡?Â¬??¦Ã‚Â¡ÃƒÆ'Ã??Â¢?Â¬?Â¡?
> ?Ã¢?¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ?I had to explain to them that it was the same as 40million tb -
> when they really only meant $5,000 usd (but hiked it up higher, because
> they think all americans are rich)
> > > > > > >
> > > > > >
> > > > > > Are not all American's rich?
> > > > > >
> > > > > > :-)
> > > > > >
> > > > > > Or I should say most much more rich than Thai families.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > > But people in USA RARELY talk in terms of millions of USD.
> That is still one hell of a lot of money
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > > For example- a nice house can be purchased for
> $100,000.castle (like the one I own) can be purchased for $450,000.
> > > > > > >
> > > > > >
> > > > > > In Los Angeles it almost impossible to find little house in not
> great neighborhood for less than $450,000.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > I think for $100,000 you can lease a nice parking space.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > > Some areas of the country had homes approcahcing 700K to
> $1million but those over-inflated price days are long gone- wiped out in the
> real estate crash last year.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > Again. Not in California.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > KHWAN
> > > > > >
> > > > >
> > > >
> > >
> >
>