Asian American Romance: [asianamericanromance] Re: When looking

Hi Rose,

I have the same feeling with you.

Sharon

--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "Rose" <pinkiee.roses@...> wrote:
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> Hi Arnold,
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> When you joined the club ? I remember few days ago Khwan posted the description and the purpose of this group :)
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> As for me, I come from Indonesia, and not many people from my country can speak fluent english, and am one of them :), and I joined this group maybe from 2 or 3 months ago. This group was so quiet till Sharon came with her 'advertisement' and out of sudden this group alive :)
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> I want to spread my wing of friendship to all over the world. And I believe this group is for all people to share their experience of life, espeically those who are having mixed cultural relationship such as asian and american. It is always nice to learn from other people experience other than our own experience :)
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> Cheers
> Rose
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> Happiness - To appreciate what we have and to be able to enjoy them
> Sent with lots of best wishes and powered by Faith
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> -----Original Message-----
> From: Arnaldo Beni <hab77@...>
> Sender: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> Date: Sat, 12 Jun 2010 21:43:09
> To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com<asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com>
> Reply-To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> Subject: RE: [asianamericanromance] Re: When looking
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> well i am getting these mesages and i dont these people i would like to get to know them that is all ,Maybe you can tell me what this site is all about?
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> To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> From: pinkiee.roses@...
> Date: Sun, 13 Jun 2010 00:45:37 +0000
> Subject: Re: [asianamericanromance] Re: When looking
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> Hi Arnold,
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> I know that your comment is for sharon, but it did make me curious.
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> Which part of sharon's comment made you rethink your original opinion ?
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> Happiness - To appreciate what we have and to be able to enjoy them
> Sent with lots of best wishes and powered by Faith
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> -----Original Message-----
> From: Arnaldo Beni <hab77@...>
> Sender: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> Date: Sat, 12 Jun 2010 17:26:48
> To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com<asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com>
> Reply-To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> Subject: RE: [asianamericanromance] Re: When looking
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> hi sharon your comments have made me rethink my original opinions.
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> To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> From: lin.sharon123@...
> Date: Sat, 12 Jun 2010 18:41:06 +0000
> Subject: [asianamericanromance] Re: When looking
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> Hi Jerry,
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> So far I harvest the most from reading your previous reply n thank you for your kind suggestion.Jerry, your whole family member all look pretty cool n thank you for sharing album n all the comments, decent n intelligent.
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> Actually I have heard enough comment similiar like yours... however, yours' sound so sincere n persuasive itself. That makes it different n impact my previous thinking towards marriage into another deeper layer of thinking.
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> Sorry that my english wasn't good enough to express myself, your metaphor is suitable for my comprehension in brief.
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> Actually,2M for me is just a figure which means financial security for family if I wanna get married. I would appreciate anyone who could ignore the number to challenge me for anything over our topics.
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> Your comments are reasonable n feasible. That moves me to take that coz I didn't expect to have any good response at the very beginning actually.
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> My measurement remain the same as I firstly mentioned.
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> My attribute... let me try to list for sell.
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> Brief self-introduction:
> Name:Sharon Lin
> Nationality: Taiwan
> Height n Weight: 5'2 n 125lbs
> Look: shiny black hair
> Education: Bachelour degree in Applied Foreign Languages
> of National Taiwan University of Sceince n Technology.
> Profession: Between jobs
> Ideal role: A house wife with working career in TW govermt.
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> (1) I am a good cook because my second sister is a good cook, I learnt little from her.
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> (2) I like kids because I love my nephew and niece.
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> (3) I am good at sports because my blood type is O which ancestor were said to hunt in pasture land with great acitivity. My favorite sports are table tennis, tai-chi, dance and simple ball sports like badminton, billiards etc.
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> (4) I am competent of taking care of the both families and supporting.
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> (5) My parents never asked nor took for free a cent from my sisterinlaw n brotherinlaw.
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> The rest (6) ... perhaps to (100) is to be continued...
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> What I asked is already a good enough person, so no room for negotiation since it's subjective issue but could be adjusted prior to potentially great applicants is fine by me. So I will welcome candidates of my future hubby get on line.
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> Anyone who is convinced n interested could still reply to my wanted topic "My criterion in hubby"
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> Jerry, I know the above is still not good enough from your suggestion. But that's what's about me so far. Thank you for sharing your comments.
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> cheers,
> Sharon
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> --- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "Just For Birds" <justforbirds@> wrote:
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> > Sharon:
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> > The point of contention came about (that many objected to) was the
> > expectation for $2M us.
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> > When trying to sell something; really anything; even ourselves there are a
> > few basic tools to use.
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> > First and foremost; sell yourself: do a good job. List your attributes (no;
> > not your measurements{although some do!})
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> > For instance maybe you're a good cook or like kids or good at sports.
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> > Then; after the "buyer" has evinced some interest: then drop the sale price
> > in private.
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> > If a really great person is made; the sale price might even be
> > re-negotiable or
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> > adjusted prior to scaring off potentially great applicants.
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> > I, too, had to show my wife's family I was capable and had the resources to
> > support her in an acceptable manner.
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> > But; that came well after the "sale job" on both my & her part had been
> > completed.
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> > After convincing ourselves we wanted to be together; then came the assurance
> > to the family.
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> > Cooler heads prevailed.
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> > They had to know they weren't sending their daughter off to some penniless
> > beggar with big ideas and no substance.
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> > So: methinks it would be better for you to list all the great things about
> > yourself (shiny black hair, education; like that).
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> > Just a suggestion.
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> > Thanks for looking at my photos. As you can see; chubby old white lump gets
> > Thai cutie.
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> > Thankfully; the kids got their looks & brains from mom.
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> > If they took after me, well;..... glad that didn't happen.
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> > J
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