OMG! I got so many responses to my introduction I don't know where to start. Some were very helpful, some were informative, some just funny. I would love to personally address them all, but wouldn't you know it? I got so busy at work this week! All of a sudden too! Figures, I go looking for a community to share with, find one, and now I don't have the time to participate. Well, better to be busy at work, then not busy and unemployed!
After two lonely nights, as the only occupant of a Queen sized bed, I realized that she wasn't going to start a conversation to talk this out, so I started to talk to her. I guess I got her to see my point of view, because she's back now, and once again, we're doing okay. The story is, that I said something, 50% joking, 50% serious, but in her eyes it was 100% stupid! LOL [No, it wasn't bad...] and I certainly didn't intend to hurt her, or make her mad, which it did, and okay, so, get mad at me, throw things, hit me [she can't hurt me] but accept my apology and get over it. Sleeping on the couch is unacceptable in my marriage, and I told her this three times before I went to bed, and gave her every chance to return to bed, I even gave her until 5:30am when my alarm went off, but she didn't come back. I got her to realize the difference in out respective actions [mine was unintentional, her's was planned, vicious, and intentionally designed just to hurt me.] But either way, she's back, and the makeup sex was so good that I told her I'm starting the next fight TODAY! LOL - She laughed too!
When my wife and I are getting along, we get along REALLY well. I don't ever want her to go back to China permanently [at least not without me] and I don't believe she'll ever want to go back either. Her name is Xiaomin [she's never wanted to choose a silly American name, which I love her for... I have so many Chinese friends named "Happy" and "Sunny" and, well, you get the idea. She speaks near perfect Engrish [pun intended] because she worked for a long time as a translator, interpretor, and even taught English to children. We don't have a problem with communication [well, at least not in understanding the words!] She's done a little bit of work here already in teaching a Chinese lady some English and she's looking into other things too, or maybe attending some College courses, which I fully support. Or she can just stay at home and pleasure me! [ROFL - I'm kidding of course] -- She's nine years younger than I am [go Jerry] and in my eyes, and everyone else's eyes too, she's the hottest thing this side of Jupiter [although she doesn't think so] in China, she was probably considered on the "fat" side, but not for here. She's adorable, about 5'3" and 130 lbs. Beautiful straight long black hair, a complexion to die for, and I get lost every time I look into her slanted eyes! LOL. Put a bikini on her and she turns every head at the pool ... take the bikini off of her, and I'm stunned into a puddle of Jerry-juice!
Gee, can ya' tell we're getting along again? LOL ... Does anybody want to buy her after this post? Warning though, she's not cheap... maybe easy, but not cheap! LOL
This post has gotten way too long -- I'm sorry, I'll post again when I get more time, and let everyone know what our cultural differences are that we face daily. Not to mention my two [wonderful] children and my evil ex that we can't seem to agree about on how to kill!
Jerry [or just CJ]
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