William I will honestly tell you what i think about this now know this i am in love with lovely Asian woman from the Philippines and we are going on 3years+ together she is still in Philippines and i was there in 2007 and will be going back next year(2011) now like you she has 3 kids when we met but that did not matter to us we love each other and first of all i was up front about my finances and told her flat out that if i sent help know that there is a limit what i can sent and i did not sent any money until i have known her for sometime and believe me it's was much longer than one month before i did sent anything when i went there i met her parents mom and dad and her family so i was able to know what her family was like her dad wanted to get to know me and her mom was too she learn first hand that i was not made of money and that worked hard for everything that i have and told her that so she knows this and she wants to help me by getting a job to help out she was working in Taiwan when we met and when that job ended then she went back to Philippines and now looking for another job we are more together and love now than we first met by the way she asked me before she went to look for work to help and i say yes by all means do so and all issues with the kids and finances we talk about together and work them out and if she is not willing to do this then she not the one and before you get any deeper you need to get with with her and find out where you both stand and do this ASAP hope some of what i said about me and my woman will help you in this matter. Nate
--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "WILL" <wmillette@...> wrote:
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> I'm William 38yr white male involved with a 36 yr married with 3kids Chinese woman from Beijing china here in USA on work visa only....we been together 1month and are engaged to be married she is in divorce now and when done we are to be married.... She is a slave to her boss and her boss owns her....seriously....this is really pissing me off her boss makes her work 14 hr days and stay with her she wont let us live together yet, mabye in Jan I was told....I have so many questions I don't know where to start so I'll list a few I need now.......
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> 1 when we live together can I ask her to help pay with the bills or am I supposed to pay everything......
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> 2can I ask her to work less and take 2 days off so we can be together and do stuff
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> 3 worried she marry me for green card , how can I tell if she will stay with me or if just for card
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> 4 she says its custom for me to buy her clothes sheets and stuff when she move in...
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> 5 she torn between me and work witch is she supposed to favor more me or her boss?
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> 6 when we marry will she listen to my advice and do as I ask when it comes to important issues like family and time together? Will she be loyal and loving?
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> I'm not sure what to expect,,,,
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> If you need more info to answer questions just ask I will add info asap...
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> Thanks very much
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> I'm only in it for the love and want it to last forever so I been studying everything I can
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