RE: [asianamericanromance] Re: New with my Chinese fieancee need advice....lots!!!



dkturek wrote:

“Perhaps a bit rude and crude, but Jerry has very valid points.”

Ahhhhhh! The word is “blunt”, actually, my good man.

I truly think we’re being scammed; there’s more holes in Williams’ tale than a rusted out colander.

I forgot about the 1-kid policy. Yeah: where did 3 kids come from?

My wife is from Thailand. We wrote for 6 months; I went over to meet her; we wrote for 3 more years & then took the plunge into marriage.

No money requests; never/ever. Married 15 years; two smart-as-whips boys. She just became a citizen and has her own business here for 12 years, now.

I won a lottery: you can, too. You just have to open your eyes and be smart.

I wrote to over 100 ladies and the tales of woe……….you cannot believe.

The kids that all of a sudden appear from nowhere; you’d be surprised how many virgin births have occurred in recent times.
I’m surprised we don’t have Christmas each and every day; twice on many days.
And the parents and grandparents that suddenly die; I truly surprised anybody is left.

The Philippines must be as void of people as the Gobi Desert. And: the number of divorces in that Catholic country! My Gawd; they all went to live in purgatory for sure.

And the gals who have 3 birthdays per year (“could you send a Swatch Watch… no! Rolex is better, thank you!”)

I write from jaded experience, fellow life travelers, and have little patience for those who are marching quickly onto the pages of the next Darwin Awards book.
One of my co-workers regularly competes for the “Village Idiot” title. He went on-line and met his “true soul mate” . 6 weeks later; he hopped the very next West-bound plane to get to the East(there’s an oxymoron in there somewhere….but; I digress). So: he gets to China and finds out she’s a guy! Not to worry! Not to be daunted!  He finds another one and marries her on his 3-week vacation. Took like 4 weeks for a landed immigrant visa and “poof!” she’s here. Oh! Sorry; this was his 4th wife. He’s now looking for #5 and it’s only been like 16 months since his marriage. He can’t sponsor another out-of-country bride ‘til his 10-year undertaking for this one is completed. And: he can’t find another victim here either. What’s a guy to do; I ask! So: he’s whining and sniveling and she’s on a spending spree for which he is financially responsible for her for another 8 years.

Let me explain: in Canada: when a spouse or anyone is sponsored for a family immigration visa we must be financially responsible for the person for 10 years. This is kinda more onerous than the typical biblical 7 year undertaking where the guy had to work for 7 years for his bride(actually 14 years to get the sister he wanted).

My wife & I have this wonderful marriage which she explained to me from the very beginning: I was told I would be loving and faithful and an all-round great guy ‘cause I had to sleep some time and she knew where all the sharp objects were in the house. Needless to say: I’m still in one piece and she’s a happy camper.  Those Thai women; great sense of humour but very serious when mad!

Anyways: methinks Williams is pulling our legs. I’m sure we’re all walking a tad lop sided from believing him.

 

Jerry(original Jerry; not the Captain Jerry without the boat)



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