Asian American Romance: [asianamericanromance] Re: Fat, Old, Ugly American Men (and poor)

Hello Mr. Newell:

Welcome to the Group. Sadly. For your first post I see you do the exact thing you complain about. You complain that there is nothing but name calling-then you call the people a bunch of 10 year olds.

May I suggest that while it is very easy to join and Group and post negative comments. It would be more of a benefit to everyone (including yourself) to be more positive in your approach? If you do not like the areas of discussions-please post another topic.

Maybe you can discuss what brought you to this group in the first place? What interests and experiences you have? Maybe if you have specific questions you want answered.

All of that is 100x more helpful and positive than just posting a 15 word complaint.

KHWAN

--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, bruce newell <brucen96@...> wrote:
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> Not much discussion in this group..............just a bunch of 10 year olds name calling.Â
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> --- On Thu, 6/10/10, Khwan <khwan@...> wrote:
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> From: Khwan <khwan@...>
> Subject: [asianamericanromance] Fat, Old, Ugly American Men (and poor)
> To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> Date: Thursday, June 10, 2010, 5:19 PM
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> --- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, Mike Kosak <mwk_14059@> wrote:
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> > 8) I caller her a bitch for her bitchiness (and dont forget- we now also know what the MODERATOR of the group thinks about fat, old, ugly american men)
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> First. I never called anyone fat, old or ugly. But I will be happy to reveal what I think of these traits.
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> Fat: Excercise. Lose weight. Get healthy. There is nothing good or healthy about be overweight and it lead to problems like diabetes and early death.
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> Old: No problems with old people. I LOVE old people. Some of my friends I met on Yahoo would be considered old. In Thailand (unlike in USA) we learn from young age to respect and honor old people. It about a state of mind and heart. But if you are 65 years old and you go to Asia to look for a 20 year old wife. I think this is a bad idea. You have nothing in common and will have problems in future.
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> Ugly: I think people can make effort to make them self look nice. You not have to be George Clooney. But you should take a bath. Brush your teeth. Comb your hair. Wear OK clothes. Etc. I said "unattractive" in my original post. Not ugly. I have seen many men who not want to make even this little bit effort to look presentable. Again. If you not can take care of being clean or yourself-do not expect others to feel differently about you.
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> Poor: Not everyone in the world is rich. For many women-money is important. Many woman-money is not important. I not rich. But I work hard. If I see someone who is lazy and not work hard-I not want to hear them complain they not rich or have no money. It sad-but I know of some Thai women who came to USA with promises from the husbands only to discover that the husbands were losers. No jobs or very little work. They not can support his wife like he promised (and remember-in this economy it hard for someone new to this country just to find a job) and the wife have to take very low pay work to support husband. Etc. And this is not because husband works hard and tries. It is because husband lazy and does not try.
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> And why so many men angry when they read a woman want man to have money? If you not like-go find new woman. I not going to be angry at men who like blonde hair. I not going to judge them.
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> KHWAN
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