Asian American Romance: [asianamericanromance] Re: New Guy

Hi Jerry n Rose,

I am sort of against china bride ... :p
I used to work in our national immigrantion agency and assist interviewing china bride... None I would say they got cool personality deeply in their soul.. :p Sorry if I jumped to a conclusion too subjective.

Their gap between poor and rich are pretty worse, female were not regarded any important, so they were unlucky to grow in a fair environment. They would seize any straw reach to them.... I personally don't think they would really want to go back to China. I might be very wrong but I personally think that's because she is in US now that she wants more. Send her back to China alone for a month, she will definately love you more than before.

Again... I am sort of against china bride ... :p Probably it's because they are more competitive than me. lol

I am also curious about your case.

cheers,
Sharon
--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "Rose" <pinkiee.roses@...> wrote:
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> Hi Jerry
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> Welcome.
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> Sorry to hear your problem. I guess that is what we called marriage life ;) May I know what is your wife age ?
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> Yes it could be cultural difference shock. She is now trying to adapt to her present situation and she did miss her family a lot. All her life, she was living with her family and now she feels lonely without them.
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> Sleeping on the couch for 2 days .... Wow. Wanna share the problem ? Maybe we can help you here ? :)
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> Sent on date 6/23/2010 time 07:22
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> ~Watch your habits, for they become your character. Develop your character, for it becomes your destiny~
> Sent with lots of best wishes and powered by Faith
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> -----Original Message-----
> From: "Captain Jerry" <CaptainJerry@...>
> Sender: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> Date: Tue, 22 Jun 2010 22:22:28
> To: <asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com>
> Reply-To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> Subject: [asianamericanromance] New Guy
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> Hi,
> I'm new here. My name is Jerry [I've been called "Captain Jerry" for a
> very long time!] I live in Southern California [The O.C. Baby!] and I
> work for KIA Motors America as a Senior Software Engineer [which just
> means that I'm a programmer that's been around the block a few...
> hundred times!] -- About 2 years ago I was in the middle of a very
> devastating divorce, when I met this wonderful girl [online] from China.
> We clicked BIG TIME, and embarked on getting her to the U.S. to be my
> wife. I went to visit her once, and it took us 9 more months to get her
> here. We were married 10 days after she stepped off the plane. Our
> relationship has been up and down since... Usually good, sometimes
> great, sometimes just okay, but when we're having problems, they are
> really bad. She almost immediately jumps to wanting to go back to
> China, permanently. Yes, she misses her family, but she is constantly
> online with them, and doesn't seem to be bothered that she can't
> actually be with them in person. I think our problems are more in the
> area of cultural differences, but I'll get to that in a new post!
> [She's been sleeping on the couch for the past 2 nights :-(
> Jerry
>