Hi Frederick
Its interesting and I do agree with you.
In any relationship, the very basic things we need is communications. Even though its sound easy, trust me its not easy at all.
I hope Jerry can create a good communication between him and his wife, and he is indeed need to work hard on this. Sometimes its typical chinese lady not to share her feelings and mind openly. Some of them perfer to keep it inside, for some reason, and finally it creates difficulty in relationship. I've been there ;)
Good luck to Jerry
Cheers
~Rose~
~Watch your habits, for they become your character. Develop your character, for it becomes your destiny~
Sent with lots of best wishes and powered by Faith
From: Frederick Whiteside <fwhiteside@yahoo.com>
Sender: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wed, 23 Jun 2010 01:51:06 -0700 (PDT)
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Subject: [asianamericanromance] Re: New Guy--Captain Jerry
Hi Jerry, I have read your letter and also read what others have said. Cultural differences can indeed be both vast and troublesome, especially in new relationships. There can be many underlying problems that are not being addressed by your wife to you at this time. Jerry, I cannot stress enough, the importance of getting her off the couch and back into your bedroom. I am sure you know that one of the main keys to any relationship is the ability for couples to communicate everything with each other. Please Jerry, fight your very hardest to persuade your wife to sit down with you and share her thoughts. The two of you may need to bring in an outside person that does really know both of you, so that she does not feel like you are ganging up on her. Have you tried addressing the issues and problems with your or her family? Sometimes our parents and/or other family members have already experienced what you are going through now and can give you valid solutions. I really wish you the very best in your relationship. You obviously love your wife to the utmost and may be willing to endeavor outside of the box for an answer to your present and future problems. Please keep the group updated, we are all here for one another. Frederick Whiteside --- On Wed, 6/23/10, sullivan.john@
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