Asian American Romance: [asianamericanromance] Re: My criterion in hubby

Hi Ms Black,

I agree with you.

Sharon

--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "ms_black_001" <Ms_Black_001@...> wrote:
>
>
> I'm wondering if the few other females on this list are as sick as I
> am, of this sort of hostile, disrespectful attitude, on this list, which
> comes up often.
>
> In this instance, several of you don't approve of a woman asking for
> a man with lots of money. Does that excuse each of you from any sort of
> bad behaviour of your own, in how you speak to her? Telling her to go
> stand on a street corner and comparing her to a "Christmas cake" or
> an old car? The name-calling posts are beneath even addressing.
>
> Disrespect toward each other's political opinions, and toward other
> cultures, that's all bad enough, especially on this list,
> considering the theme, here! But disrespect toward women, in a group
> about love? Being so anxious to say hostile things to a woman and put
> her "in her place," doesn't improve your own appeal any, to
> other women who sense your anger and resentment, so easily tapped.
>
> I see many males here pleased to talk in very practical, blunt terms,
> regarding why they're looking for an Asian female, specifically, and
> maybe one who's not already an American citizen. They're
> aren't shy to say they think she'll be more physically
> attractive, more submissive, less demanding, have a more traditional
> role in the relationship, that an older guy can find a younger, more
> attractive girl overseas, where they can leverage their American
> citizenship, and their U.S. dollars, which may not look like so much in
> the U.S..
>
> I don't see anyone dogpiling men who talk like this, to say that
> they shouldn't be so shallow and practical and cold-heartedly
> calculating, in choosing a mate. What's the difference between that
> and a woman who says, I want a man who has a certain level of security
> and material luxury in his lifestyle? You've got your practical
> terms, she's got hers.
>
> To quote from a certain movie,
>
> "Aren't you funny? Don't you know that a rich man is like a pretty
> girl?
>
> You don't marry her just because she's pretty. But, my goodness,
> doesn't it help?
>
> And would you want your daughter to marry a poor man? You'd want her to
> have the most wonderful things in the world.
>
> Why is it wrong for *me* to want those things?"
>
> If you disapprove because you want a relationship to be all about love,
> and you're promoting higher values, such as love, goodness, kindness,
> and respect, you've got a funny way of showing it! Is this how you take
> the high road, by speaking disrespectfully and taking joy in insulting a
> woman?!
>
>
>
> --- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "Sharon"
> <lin.sharon123@> wrote:
> >
> > Hi Walter,
> >
> > You funny too.
> >
> > Coz you lingering on here as well.
> >
> > Dream Dream Dream
> >
> > cheers,
> > Sharon
> >
> > --- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, Walter Schmidt
> bigtexwalter@ wrote:
> > >
> > > Sharon, you funny lady!
> > > ?
> > > Dream Dream Dream
> > >
>