Asian American Romance: [asianamericanromance] Re: My criterion in hubby

Hi Steve,

I agree with you and Khwan.

Sharon

--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, Steve Goldade <stevegoldade@...> wrote:
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> Khwan
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> From another man, I truely support your thoughts. This dud appears to be a real jerk.
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> From: Khwan <khwan@...>
> To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> Sent: Wed, June 9, 2010 8:15:10 PM
> Subject: [asianamericanromance] Re: My criterion in hubby
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> What a sad little man you must really be.
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> As soon as a woman says something you do not agree with you call them whores and bitches.
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> Is this how your mother raised you to treat women?
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> No need to post a reply. This Group has had enough disrespect and name calling from you.
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> Consider yourself not welcome to post here any more in the future until you learn to respect women.
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> KHWAN
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> --- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, Mike Kosak <mwk_14059@> wrote:
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> > wow- what a bitch you are
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> > --- On Wed, 6/9/10, Khwan <khwan@> wrote:
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> > From: Khwan <khwan@>
> > Subject: [asianamericanromance] Re: My criterion in hubby
> > To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> > Date: Wednesday, June 9, 2010, 6:43 PM
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> > Mike:
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> > I fear that it is you who revealed more about yourself than you think.
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> > I NEVER called ALL men who go to Asia "fat, ugly, poor, slobs". Maybe you see yourself as that and see my words as reflection of poor self-image? I said that many men who not considered attractive or older in USA go to Asia to find younger girlfriends and wives. The reason is simple-they not want older and less attractive women in the USA. This is the reason why so many people here prejudice over lady older than 30 years old-and this criticism coming from men 45-60 years old.
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> > As for revealing yourself more-I think any man who calls a woman he never met a "whore" has no respect for women in general. And the type of man who has this little respect is exactly the kind of man that sadly often looks to women of other countries for a relationship. Maybe you think it OK to call women whores because you not agree with them-I do not. It is rude and shows lack of education and manners and respect.
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> > Again. I not say this is for ALL men. But I think most women would have little to do with a man who disrepects women like you have.
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> > KHWAN
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> > --- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, Mike Kosak <mwk_14059@> wrote:
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> > > your opion that all the men who went to asia are fat ugly poor slobs is the cynical part
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> > > the idiots who posted that she was over 30 were stupid too.
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> > > They revealed themselves for the idiots they are, but she started out by coming on as a gold digging whore
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> > > --- On Wed, 6/9/10, Khwan <khwan@> wrote:
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> > > From: Khwan <khwan@>
> > > Subject: [asianamericanromance] Re: My criterion in hubby
> > > To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> > > Date: Wednesday, June 9, 2010, 5:44 PM
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> > > What part I say is cynical? It is true. MANY older men in the West (USA) go to Asia to find younger girls.
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> > > Look at the posts here for the last few days.
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> > > EVERY man who posted against Shannon was over 45. And yet they were critical of her because she was over 30. Spoiled milk someone called her.
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> > > Is that not double standard?
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> > > I not say this 100% of the men who are in relationships with Asian woman. But if you not think it common-I think your eyes are closed.
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> > > KHWAN
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> > > --- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, Mike Kosak <mwk_14059@> wrote:
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> > > > wow- i think you might have revealed a little more about your cynical attitude toward american man than you might have intended
> > > > ÃƒÆ'Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ‚Â
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> > > > --- On Wed, 6/9/10, Khwan <khwan@> wrote:
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> > > > From: Khwan <khwan@>
> > > > Subject: [asianamericanromance] Re: My criterion in hubby
> > > > To: asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com
> > > > Date: Wednesday, June 9, 2010, 4:15 PM
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> > > > ÃƒÆ'Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ‚Â
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> > > > --- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, Mike Kosak <mwk_14059@> wrote:
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> > > > > SHE STARTED IT!ÃƒÆ'Ã†'ÃƒÂ¢Ã¢â€šÂ¬Ã…Â¡ÃƒÆ'Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ‚Â ÃƒÆ'Ã†'ÃƒÂ¢Ã¢â€šÂ¬Ã…Â¡ÃƒÆ'Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ‚Â ÃƒÆ'Ã†'ÃƒÂ¢Ã¢â€šÂ¬Ã…Â¡ÃƒÆ'Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ‚Â
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> > > > > Ok now that we have received a few more responses from her it is starting to seem more like a cultural difference
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> > > > > In this country expressing how much assets you demand of your furutre husband is not going to go over very big.ÃƒÆ'Ã†'ÃƒÂ¢Ã¢â€šÂ¬Ã…Â¡ÃƒÆ'Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ‚Â It makes you sound like you have a price tag for your 'services' and we know what that is called (prostitution)
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> > > > I understand this point of view.
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> > > > At same time-I understand her point of view. Men so many times look to Asia for girlfriends and wives because they not can find same in their country.
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> > > > They have big long list of what they want:
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> > > > Young. Pretty. Work hard like maid to take care of house.
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> > > > Give husband children or take care of children husband have.
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> > > > And these lists come from older men who are overweight and not attractive or not have good jobs. These men not can find sexy young girls in USA that want to date them. So they think that they can find that in Asia.
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> > > > So if men have list of what they want-what is wrong with women have same list?
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> > > > > And I wonder if you understand the value of $2million USD- it is less than 1% of the population that has that kind of money (that would be considered very very rich)
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> > > > That is still 3,000,000 people. So it not impossible to find.
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> > > > And again. I go back to what I say before. Why is this bad when men have long list of what they want in Asia girl-a list that they could never find in the USA?
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> > > > ÃƒÆ'Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ‚Â
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> > > > > One potential girl friend I met told me her family expected me to pay them $1million USD for marriage to her.ÃƒÆ'Ã†'ÃƒÂ¢Ã¢â€šÂ¬Ã…Â¡ÃƒÆ'Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ‚Â I had to explain to them that it was the same as 40million tb - when they really only meant $5,000 usd (but hiked it up higher, because they think all americans are rich)
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> > > > Are not all American's rich?
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> > > > Or I should say most much more rich than Thai families.
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> > > > > But people in USA RARELY talk in terms of millions of USD. That is still one hell of a lot of money
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> > > > > For example- a nice house can be purchased for $100,000.castle (like the one I own) can be purchased for $450,000.
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> > > > In Los Angeles it almost impossible to find little house in not great neighborhood for less than $450,000.
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> > > > I think for $100,000 you can lease a nice parking space.
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> > > > > Some areas of the country had homes approcahcing 700K to $1million but those over-inflated price days are long gone- wiped out in the real estate crash last year.
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> > > > Again. Not in California.
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> > > > KHWAN
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