Asian American Romance: [asianamericanromance] Re: My criterion in hubby

Hi John,

Thanks for your comment.

Sharon

--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, simanton@... wrote:
>
> Well said, Sharon.
>
> John S.
>
>
> In a message dated 6/12/2010 12:37:31 A.M. Pacific Daylight Time,
> lin.sharon123@... writes:
>
> Hi xve298,
>
> I agree with you to some point. However I don't think it's not right to
> have any kind of criterion. After all criterion changing over time
> considering what's the circumstance. It's not every place has its value. It's every
> individuality has its value. I respect them all.
>
> Sharon
>
>
>
> --- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "xve298" <xve298@> wrote:
> >
> > I like many have heard this same foolish argument. There is nothing
> wrong with asking for what will make you happy. Yes many have had their
> retirement in advance of when they wished and the money that was promised is
> gone.
> > But why characterize them as losers? That just keeps pushing the
> buttons. Everyone wants a Bigger Better Deal whether buying food or getting
> a GF or mate.
> > If a person wants to have a multimillionaire for a husband she has
> that right. If a man rather look outside the US for his GF/Mate he too has
> that right. Many people are retiring outside the US as their money goes
> further. Yes socializing is more difficult as one gets older in the US
> society. For both sexes.
> >
> > One very important point. Not everyplace has the same values as the
> US. Everyone is not like you.
> >
> > --- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "Sharon" <lin.sharon123@>
> wrote:
> > >
> > > Hi Ms Black,
> > >
> > > I agree with you.
> > >
> > > Sharon
> > >
> > > --- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "ms_black_001"
> <Ms_Black_001@> wrote:
> > > >
> > > >
> > > > I'm wondering if the few other females on this list are as sick as I
> > > > am, of this sort of hostile, disrespectful attitude, on this list,
> which
> > > > comes up often.
> > > >
> > > > In this instance, several of you don't approve of a woman asking for
> > > > a man with lots of money. Does that excuse each of you from any
> sort of
> > > > bad behaviour of your own, in how you speak to her? Telling her to
> go
> > > > stand on a street corner and comparing her to a "Christmas cake" or
> > > > an old car? The name-calling posts are beneath even addressing.
> > > >
> > > > Disrespect toward each other's political opinions, and toward other
> > > > cultures, that's all bad enough, especially on this list,
> > > > considering the theme, here! But disrespect toward women, in a group
> > > > about love? Being so anxious to say hostile things to a woman and
> put
> > > > her "in her place," doesn't improve your own appeal any, to
> > > > other women who sense your anger and resentment, so easily tapped.
> > > >
> > > > I see many males here pleased to talk in very practical, blunt
> terms,
> > > > regarding why they're looking for an Asian female, specifically, and
> > > > maybe one who's not already an American citizen. They're
> > > > aren't shy to say they think she'll be more physically
> > > > attractive, more submissive, less demanding, have a more traditional
> > > > role in the relationship, that an older guy can find a younger, more
> > > > attractive girl overseas, where they can leverage their American
> > > > citizenship, and their U.S. dollars, which may not look like so much
> in
> > > > the U.S..
> > > >
> > > > I don't see anyone dogpiling men who talk like this, to say that
> > > > they shouldn't be so shallow and practical and cold-heartedly
> > > > calculating, in choosing a mate. What's the difference between that
> > > > and a woman who says, I want a man who has a certain level of
> security
> > > > and material luxury in his lifestyle? You've got your practical
> > > > terms, she's got hers.
> > > >
> > > > To quote from a certain movie,
> > > >
> > > > "Aren't you funny? Don't you know that a rich man is like a pretty
> > > > girl?
> > > >
> > > > You don't marry her just because she's pretty. But, my goodness,
> > > > doesn't it help?
> > > >
> > > > And would you want your daughter to marry a poor man? You'd want
> her to
> > > > have the most wonderful things in the world.
> > > >
> > > > Why is it wrong for *me* to want those things?"
> > > >
> > > > If you disapprove because you want a relationship to be all about
> love,
> > > > and you're promoting higher values, such as love, goodness, kindness,
> > > > and respect, you've got a funny way of showing it! Is this how you
> take
> > > > the high road, by speaking disrespectfully and taking joy in
> insulting a
> > > > woman?!
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >
> > > > --- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "Sharon"
> > > > <lin.sharon123@> wrote:
> > > > >
> > > > > Hi Walter,
> > > > >
> > > > > You funny too.
> > > > >
> > > > > Coz you lingering on here as well.
> > > > >
> > > > > Dream Dream Dream
> > > > >
> > > > > cheers,
> > > > > Sharon
> > > > >
> > > > > --- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, Walter Schmidt
> > > > bigtexwalter@ wrote:
> > > > > >
> > > > > > Sharon, you funny lady!
> > > > > > ?
> > > > > > Dream Dream Dream
> > > > > >
> > > >
> > >
> >
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