Sharon, I am beginning to find you a very likeable person!
John S.
In a message dated 6/12/2010 12:39:10 A.M. Pacific Daylight Time, lin.sharon123@yahoo.com writes:
Hi Khwan,
Before Cath reply to you, here is what I think.
I think everyone has his tastes n outlook of his own life.
We might not agree with those guys who wished to pay for sex in a stable long relationship with marriage under good controlling.
I am not worry for those poor 20s young girls coz they would learn their lives sooner or later. :p
Sharon
--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "Khwan" <khwan@...> wrote:
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> --- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "Cath" <cat43@> wrote:
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> > Hello, Sharon
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> >
> > Prostitutes charge $15 - $30 (Canadian) for sex in Thailand. Prostitutes -
> > go go girls, bar girls (call them what you want) are definitely cheaper in
> > Thailand. And, they often do expect their 'husbands' to pay for their
> > families - that is fairly common. I know of a number of men who have
> > married Thai bar girls - and it has occurred over and over that the families
> > require some sort of 'help' financially.
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> How much do you know about Thai (or Asian) culture? Or do you just know what men who go to go-go bars tell you?
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> In Thailand family members are expected to help and take care of other family members. The people with more money help the family members with less money.
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> That is what is in our culture.
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> Maybe we value family more than they do in Canada?
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> Either way, please do not insult a differnet culture if you do not know it.
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> >
> > Many Thai bar girls are looking for a way out of the prostitution scene -
> > hence, they will 'date' older men - and play them quite well - the older men
> > feel attractive and valued because the girls know what to say and to do to
> > make the men feel like kings. It's quite the game.
>
> Seem like you an expert in Thai bar girls. May I ask again where all this experience comes from?
>
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> I know of a thai bar
> > girl who made my friend believe that she 'loved' him - wanted to marry him,
> > etc - but when he went back to Canada at the end of his 5 month trip
> > suddenly she was 'in love' with another man (much, much older and much, much
> > financially better off than my friend, by the way).
>
> OK. I see. It happen 1 time to 1 person so that is the way it is with all Asian women?
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> Or maybe the girl changed her mind and didn't want your friend? Not everyone lucky like you who meet a man and fall in love with the first man they meet. Who knows what the real story is?
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> Or maybe your friend was just stupid and payed a bar girl lots of money and thought that she was in love with him when she was just working? And maybe he is just to embarressed to admit that?
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> > These girls have learned that many men, if made to feel like kings, will
> > bend over backwards to give the girl what she wants. Someone used the term
> > 'fuck machines' - that pretty much sums it up. They'll do whatever the man
> > wants for cheap - see first paragraph. What more could a guy want?
>
> Is it not sad that all of these educated, well financed men (they can afford to travel to Asia-most Asians can not travel to USA) are sucked by bar girls who have little education?
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> And it NEVER happen that man make promises to a girl and then when he leaves from his vacation, forget about her.
>
> And how these men meet the girl in the first place? Did they get off the airplane, get hit on the head and kidnapped and taken to go-go bar? They went looking for sex and they got it and then they cry when they not get more? If you go to strip club-I not think you can expect to get a girlfriend or dating.
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> >
> > Now I'm not saying that all Thai women play these kinds of games by any
> > means. There are many kind and wonderful Thai women just as there are many
> > kind and wonderful north American women. Not all women are into money. Not
> > all women play games just to get something in return. Some women - in all
> > countries - are real people with decent morals.
>
> So why bring it up then for your example about bar girls?
>
> What about the prostitutes in Canada? Are they all honest? They don't men's money? Or steal for drugs? Or do anything else bad? They are all just wonderful human beings and when they meet men they marry them and make wonderful wives?
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> >
> >
> > And, millionaires in the US and in Canada are by no means COMMON. If only
> > it were true.
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>
> And I still not sure what this means?
>
> Wonderful, kind, intelligent gentlemen (rich or poor) are also rare. Does that mean that women should settle for jerks because it hard to find a kind and intelligent gentleman in this world?
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> >
> > And, quite frankly, I agree with Mike - women who are looking to marry men
> > for their money are basically whores. Plain and simple - married - sex -
> > getting paid for it.
>
> So what are men that pay for sex and then want to marry the girls called?
>
> So what are men who want to marry a girl only for her looks or because she will listen to him and take care of his house like a maid called?
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> KHWAN
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