Asian American Romance: [asianamericanromance] Re: My criterion in hubby

Hi John,

Thank you for your generous comment.

cheers,
Sharon

--- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, simanton@... wrote:
>
> Sharon, I am beginning to find you a very likeable person!
>
> John S.
>
>
> In a message dated 6/12/2010 12:39:10 A.M. Pacific Daylight Time,
> lin.sharon123@... writes:
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> Hi Khwan,
>
> Before Cath reply to you, here is what I think.
>
> I think everyone has his tastes n outlook of his own life.
> We might not agree with those guys who wished to pay for sex in a stable
> long relationship with marriage under good controlling.
> I am not worry for those poor 20s young girls coz they would learn their
> lives sooner or later. :p
>
> Sharon
>
> --- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "Khwan" <khwan@> wrote:
> >
> >
> >
> > --- In asianamericanromance@yahoogroups.com, "Cath" <cat43@> wrote:
> > >
> > > Hello, Sharon
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > Prostitutes charge $15 - $30 (Canadian) for sex in Thailand.
> Prostitutes -
> > > go go girls, bar girls (call them what you want) are definitely
> cheaper in
> > > Thailand. And, they often do expect their 'husbands' to pay for their
> > > families - that is fairly common. I know of a number of men who have
> > > married Thai bar girls - and it has occurred over and over that the
> families
> > > require some sort of 'help' financially.
> >
> >
> > How much do you know about Thai (or Asian) culture? Or do you just know
> what men who go to go-go bars tell you?
> >
> > In Thailand family members are expected to help and take care of other
> family members. The people with more money help the family members with
> less money.
> >
> > That is what is in our culture.
> >
> > Maybe we value family more than they do in Canada?
> >
> > Either way, please do not insult a differnet culture if you do not know
> it.
> >
> >
> > >
> > > Many Thai bar girls are looking for a way out of the prostitution
> scene -
> > > hence, they will 'date' older men - and play them quite well - the
> older men
> > > feel attractive and valued because the girls know what to say and to
> do to
> > > make the men feel like kings. It's quite the game.
> >
> > Seem like you an expert in Thai bar girls. May I ask again where all
> this experience comes from?
> >
> >
> > I know of a thai bar
> > > girl who made my friend believe that she 'loved' him - wanted to marry
> him,
> > > etc - but when he went back to Canada at the end of his 5 month trip
> > > suddenly she was 'in love' with another man (much, much older and
> much, much
> > > financially better off than my friend, by the way).
> >
> > OK. I see. It happen 1 time to 1 person so that is the way it is with
> all Asian women?
> >
> > Or maybe the girl changed her mind and didn't want your friend? Not
> everyone lucky like you who meet a man and fall in love with the first man
> they meet. Who knows what the real story is?
> >
> > Or maybe your friend was just stupid and payed a bar girl lots of money
> and thought that she was in love with him when she was just working? And
> maybe he is just to embarressed to admit that?
> >
> >
> > >
> > >
> > > These girls have learned that many men, if made to feel like kings,
> will
> > > bend over backwards to give the girl what she wants. Someone used
> the term
> > > 'fuck machines' - that pretty much sums it up. They'll do whatever
> the man
> > > wants for cheap - see first paragraph. What more could a guy want?
> >
> > Is it not sad that all of these educated, well financed men (they can
> afford to travel to Asia-most Asians can not travel to USA) are sucked by bar
> girls who have little education?
> >
> > And it NEVER happen that man make promises to a girl and then when he
> leaves from his vacation, forget about her.
> >
> > And how these men meet the girl in the first place? Did they get off the
> airplane, get hit on the head and kidnapped and taken to go-go bar? They
> went looking for sex and they got it and then they cry when they not get
> more? If you go to strip club-I not think you can expect to get a girlfriend
> or dating.
> >
> >
> > >
> > >
> > > Now I'm not saying that all Thai women play these kinds of games by any
> > > means. There are many kind and wonderful Thai women just as there are
> many
> > > kind and wonderful north American women. Not all women are into
> money. Not
> > > all women play games just to get something in return. Some women - in
> all
> > > countries - are real people with decent morals.
> >
> > So why bring it up then for your example about bar girls?
> >
> > What about the prostitutes in Canada? Are they all honest? They don't
> men's money? Or steal for drugs? Or do anything else bad? They are all just
> wonderful human beings and when they meet men they marry them and make
> wonderful wives?
> >
> >
> > >
> > >
> > > And, millionaires in the US and in Canada are by no means COMMON. If
> only
> > > it were true.
> >
> >
> > And I still not sure what this means?
> >
> > Wonderful, kind, intelligent gentlemen (rich or poor) are also rare.
> Does that mean that women should settle for jerks because it hard to find a
> kind and intelligent gentleman in this world?
> >
> >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > And, quite frankly, I agree with Mike - women who are looking to marry
> men
> > > for their money are basically whores. Plain and simple - married -
> sex -
> > > getting paid for it.
> >
> > So what are men that pay for sex and then want to marry the girls called?
> >
> > So what are men who want to marry a girl only for her looks or because
> she will listen to him and take care of his house like a maid called?
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > KHWAN
> >
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